Guys what would you do if your 9 month pregnant wife cheated on you?

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cth96190 · Accepted Answer

I would ask her why and have the baby DNA tested. I am fairly forgiving of infidelity. Human sexuality is a strange beast, especially when a woman is going through a raging hormone storm.

Wise4myage · Accepted Answer

I might forgive her.

Sonorous · Answer

I would defend myself by never getting myself in that situation to begin with

genericname85 · Answer

well... depends on how the relationship generally is and if she seems serious about never doing that again. i mean it's QUITE fucked up of her to do that in this situation, but i put my responsibility for that child i made over my decision to leave her which i would 100% do if there was no child involved. i meay leave her anyway but only if i don't see a point of having a healthy relationship with her... but then i will also take legal action to make her lose parental rights, cause i don't someone that irresponsible should be allowed to take care of my child.

TheBootyChest · Answer

I would ask why first. Then decide if I leave her or not.

The most important part of this is if I was already aware of the reason before she cheated. (Like she asks for sex and I keep saying no.) If that was the case then I would try to save the relationship.

Oigit · Answer

I'd get a custody lawyer involved. Because her actions would call her ability to be a good parent into question. Much like it would if the she was on the other foot. Simply because it would create the kind of situation where a child is going to end up right in the middle of a serious mess. No child no matter how old should be caught in the middle.

Adam1978 · Answer

I would certainly require a dna test for the child and file for a divorce. The first I would a checked regardless. The divorce will take time so the kid will be born before that has been completed. The day its done she better have a place to go, the kid can stay if it's mine.

Barry88 · Answer

Before making any decisions, there are questions which need to be answered. Did it happen once or multiple times? If it happened multiple times, how long is it already going on? Was it love or lust? Why did it happen, was it perhaps because I didn't give enough attention? What can we do to repair our relationship and regain trust?

I'm too long in a relationship to simply give up because of one time cheating.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Hopefully he would get a DNA test to see if the kid was his.

Dragonpurple · Answer

See if the kid is mine, but not bother with a divorce. That leads to child support and alimony. In my state even if the kid isn't mine, I would still be on the hook for it.

NathanDavis · Answer

with the doctor? lol... I'd be surprised first of all the marriage would be over but we would find a way to still raise our kid, both of us... just not together

ReasonCalm · Answer

Dammm and we thought dealing with the pandemic was hard. Your half developed baby had another person's private parts hitting his head possibly in your bed! I think it's safe to say to leave, who knows what future awaits you after your baby is born. However definitely speak with your parents and hers and make sure you know why she did this to you so if you move on you'll never have an empty feeling of why did she do this... Sorry man

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Gather evidence. Cause if she cheated once, she will cheat again. Soooo.. continue to gather the evidence. Than confront her with it. And make her have a peaceful divorce on my terms and we go our separate ways. I will make sure my child is taken care of and that’s it.

Lionman95 · Answer

Ask her one question: Why? I just would wanna know why she did it and how she´s feeling about that now, everything else depends on that.

anon_boy · Answer

DNA test of baby, if it's mine then I'll accept the baby and let the woman live with me but I'll never love her again, she will be just a stranger living under the same roof

admles · Answer

Get a DNA test
Dump her
Make her infidelity public knowledge
Be the best father I could be
Do everything I can to make sure she gets nothing except child support
Tell my child the truth about his mother once he / she is old enough to understand

loveslongnails · Answer

Was it with a girl or a guy? LOL I can't answer that because I can't imagine the scenario. For one, I'm in an open relationship. Two, we're never having kids.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Cry like a baby but stick beside her after all she's carrying my baby  please tell me if I'm wrong?

Anonymous · Answer

Divorce her. Do not pass go. Do not collect 200 dollars. But I'd wait till the baby was born so as not to stress the pregnancy. But as soon as the baby was born I'd file for divorce and we'd talk custody. And I wouldn't give a squirt if she was dealing with post partum depression.

AviatorTom · Answer

I'd probably forgive her. Her hormones must be raving. And we have a child to deal with.

krin_m · Answer

Oh boy, I'm poly so I don't think she will have to cheat.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Ide have the hole dug and waiting for the birth then… the hole would be filled… you got me fucked up thinking a cheating whores taking my kid and half my shit. That bitch gonna have to die.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Demand a paternity test before signing any birth certificate. If it's mine, I would just cheat constantly. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Socal99 · Answer

The smart thing I'd file in court and get her ass to pay child support and I get full custody of the kid luckily I know the legal ways to do that and have done it for many friends that have had issues like that before

Avicenna · Answer

She's gone. Someone whose judgement is that bad is not someone you want to be together with. And there will be a DNA test to confirm paternity.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

I ain't signing anything until a paternity test is done on that kid. Regardless, the relationship is done.

James899 · Answer

I don't asking anything about that. I will just try to forget that was happened.

vald9inches · Answer

I would have just told her how come she didn't invite me? We could have had a threesome lol

Guanfei · Answer

Divorce and tell her to fuck off. And get a DNA test, to see if the kid is mine. If he is, do what I can to get him. As for her, she can go fuck herself with a cactus.

Bbb222 · Answer

I’d ask her why…I’d want to know. Ifit doesn’t work out between us, then it’s 50/50 co-parenting in the best interests of the child.

Juxtapose · Answer

Dump her ass without hesitation! She's all on her own now, muahaha!

Z1pTD · Answer

Ask her how I can give her the satisfaction she wants

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Divorce and dump her and pity the child whose whore of a mother was such a poor role model and so great an embarrassment to that child (and its father) before it was even born.

Nice222 · Answer

I could deal with it as long as she wasn’t in a full blown relationship with the other guy.

Snickers_5171 · Answer

Well in normal circumstances I would most likely walk away. But considering there's a baby on the way, I have to keep his/hers future in mind, and it would be irresponsible on my part if I left

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

I will do everything to keep the child. I don't want them to grow up and raised by a filthy liar. Really i don't want to be paying for children that is claimed to be not mine.

Valso · Answer

I'd kick her out of home and send her to the guy she cheated with.

DrewJohnson · Answer

I would be grateful she told me. As for details. I would hope that she enjoyed herself. And tell her I'd love to get the details next time too.

Anonymous · Answer

I would assume he was either blind or very very drunk. If he was drunk, then he probably doesn’t even remember what she looked like so that’s pretty much taken care of. If he was blind then I’d tell him he could never ever see her again.

UdontNeedtoknow · Answer

Check if the kid is actually mine. What a hoe. poor kid will never have a father figure if she is doing that at that time.

msc545 · Answer

Leave her after the child was born and I got a DNA test for paternity. There is a good chance that child is not mine.

Anonymous · Answer

It would be over between me and her because of the cheating, and I’d demand a paternity test once the baby was born.

Anonymous · Answer

Divorce and paternity test. If she cheated while pregnant, there's a damn good chance that's how she GOT pregnant.

Anonymous · Answer

Immediate DNA test, Divorce court, petition sole custody on grounds of extreme whorish behavior,

Anonymous · Answer

Check the kids head for dents?  I'd find the nearest divorce court and file for sole custody.

magiusX26 · Answer

leave her but try to work out a way to be there for my child

TexasRed95 · Answer

Get a divorce. I would still do everything I need to foe the kid though.

ragooo8 · Answer

Dump her. I would not let my name be put on the birth cert

legalboxers · Answer

Ask her if she can raise the baby on her own

Anonymous · Answer

Make her cheating public to everywhere possible, get STD/DNA test, and make her life a living hell in the worst most inconvenient way possible

If it wasn't illegal I would eradicate the child bc I don't want to be around the spawn of a cheater

TallAnon · Answer

Contact a lawyer, because she isn't living with me no more. I would try to get full custody and whatever happens happens.

Staximus · Answer

Wow, that's low. I would kick the guy's ass and leave the woman

Naimgood · Answer

Depends what country, it's hard to get away with murder here

Throwdownxxx · Answer

Divorce her. Be as present as possible for the child.

Zygum · Answer

If she is having the child in belly oh her husband, then she must be warned because she is already pregnant, other person did not pregnant her

driven159 · Answer

would not be a wife and make sure the child is yours

dave2448 · Answer

Do a dna test on the baby to see if it is my child.

KingofCups · Answer

Haha this why I don't believe in marriage or conventional family life.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Leave her of course? Whats the pregnant part matter?

Twalli · Answer

Well I would already know she cheated by getting pregnant

Jessica405 · Answer

Same as I would in any case. Just walk away.

Chthou95 · Answer

I wouldn't be an idiot and get a woman pregnant to begin with

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