My pregnant girlfriend cheated on me, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Well me and my girlfriend have known each other for at least 8-9 months and I've been with her for 5. She's now 4 months pregnant and she had sex with her ex-boyfriend. I still want to be with her because I still love her but at the same time I don't because just knowing some other guys d*** was inside her makes me sick and I can't look at her the same. What should I do? this just happened last night :(

[Anonymous]

Its not an easy thing to get over that she cheated but you too might be able to work it out. And if you are able to work it out that's great for your family. but if not all you can do is be there for your child. It took my husband and I two years to fully get over that I got drunk and ened up sleeping with my brothers friend and what made matters worse for me I ened up pregnant. but my husband and I did get over and made up I haven't since then cheated on him again the trust issues are still there even tho its been almost 6 years. the best thing that did come out of my situation was I lost the pregnacy which did help my husband to move on from my one night mistake. Just sit down with your girlfriend and talk everything out with her. find out were her head was when it took place. I'm sure you can get over this she is going to be the mother of your child no matter what she's going to be in your life till the day you die. she might even feel really guilty about it. just have a huge one on one talk with out fighting she doesn't need the stress since she's pregnant so try to be as clam as possible because your not looking out for her your looking out for the unborn child becuase when mama is stressed so is the baby.im sure both of you can at least come to an understanding. You maybe able to forgive her but you will never be able to forget. and because she did it once doesn't mean she's going to do it again. god bless best of luck

[cutebubble]

i think people can slip up. You really have to judge whether she's worth forgiving and how sorry she is. You have a child together soon, so its best if you can sort it out. Tell her you were really disappointed in her and hurt by what she did. And that you ask a commitment from her to be a good mom and partner so you can raise the baby in a stable environment. And no more ex bfs or other guys because this is her last chance and that you would walk out if she ever did anything like that again and that you are forgiving her once because you want to give your relationship and soon to be new family, a chance so you can raise the baby in a stable environment. And no more ex bfs or other guys because this is her last chance and that you would walk out if she ever did anything like that again and that you are forgiving her once because you want to give your relationship and soon to be new family, a chance

[Standingpretty]

I am so sorry that happened to you! :( Maybe you should take a break, she needs to make up her mind on what she wants to do with her life. If she's pregnant and sleeping around on you(who, I assume is the father) then maybe you need to rethink your relationship with her as well. I hope that you will be there for the child because it sounds like she is too selfish to be a good mother to the up coming baby. Hope everything works out for you!

[Anonymous]

I would leave that trashy hoe. How are you pregnant and have the nerve to f*** another guy? She should have respect for her body, unborn child, and you. If a bitch will do that while she's pregnant she will do anything. Don't be sucker for love, this girl doesn't deserve you or your love. How do you know the baby is even yours? It might be her ex's or some other guy.

[kiss_me_Kate]

Are you sure the baby is yours? She might be a real slut.

[CrazySally]

ummmmmmmmmmm did you think she was a virgin before you hooked up? Otherwise, she would have had another guys d*** inside her... that's what happens when a girl looses her virginity...or are you saying that you would never be able to have sex with a girl unless she was a virgin... seriously, some guys are so homophobic its ridiculous...

[Anonymous]

is the baby yours?

and you have to consider, yes you love her, but if she can cheat once, what makes you know that she won't do it again, Cheating only once destroys trust that takes a while to gain back.

you have to decide if you can or would trust her again, but having sex with her ex boyfriend while with you could possibly mean some hidden feelings she still has, and I would be wary, honestly if it was me.,i wouldn't continue to be with someone who runs back to their ex. ..

[Asker]

Yea the baby is mines for sure. Yea that's true, I am just worried about the baby mostly because I was raised by a single mother and I told myself I wanted to give my baby everything I never had, like a father.

[Opinion Owner]

well congrats on the baby (:

but the thing you have to think is a baby feeds off energy that the parents put out and what kind of positive energy is being given off when the baby sees your upset or the mom being with men other than you. I understand giving the baby everything, but in a situation like this you can't make everything from nothing, when she can't care about you that much having cheated on you.

dont worry about her, focus on YOU being all that YOU can be for the baby.

[katiesmuff]

Well it has been 5 months and what did you do? By now there should be a baby or at the least very very close to one arriving.

[surrealepiphany]

DNA test the kid and keep in mind that once a cheater, always a cheater. Although some might ague that it was the beginning of the relationship and therefore okay.

[NattyBoo]

I just wanna know what guy would have sex with a pregnant girl... haha, anyways she doesn't sound like someone you would want to mother your child because she obviously makes bad decisions

[pykito-veronique]

Dump the bitch and take the baby.

[Anonymous]

she still needs to make up her mind! it could be, she's not decided yet with whom she want to settle with. watch out!

[sweetycakes]

Leave her. But still be there for the baby

[Kass1964]

I'd leave her if I were u.

[dx021]

DNA test the kid