My boyfriends kid is turning 11 soon and he wants to get him clothes and electronics. I asked him what kind of electronic he mentioned a tablet. I am thinking of telling him I’ll go half with him and that way it can be a gift from the both of us. Now I’m asking on here because would that be a good idea or should I just get him a gift that is just from me? I know I’m overthinking it but bare with me
Girl, I don't think getting the tablet together would be crossing any lines or anything weird. Here's some thoughts on it:
- Offering to go half shows you care about the kid and want to contribute to a nice gift for his birthday. That's a really sweet way to include yourself without overstepping.
- Doing it together with your boyfriend makes it a gift from the both of you as a united parental unit. Helps build you guys as a team in the son's eyes too.
- Of course also get a small separate gift just from you to open. But the big item being shared is a nice compromise I think.
- As long as your boyfriend is comfortable with it, I say go for the offer to split the cost. Shows you're willing to be financially supportive of your boyfriend's family too.
- Just be tactful about how you present it so the kid doesn't feel put on the spot or pressured into seeing you as a parental figure too fast.
Go with your instincts - sounds like you're coming from a caring place. I'm sure the kid will love anything you contribute. You got this, girl!
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That’s an expensive gift to give a kid who isn’t even your stepchild. I’d offer to go half on the tablet, and then maybe buy a few accessories or a gift card that can be just from you.
Both options are actually a good idea. If you don't know what to get him go half half with your partner.
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u could go half with him
I don't see a pe with that.
yup sounds like a good idea.
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