Would it be ok?

[coxoabean]

I met this guy on snap about 2 weeks ago, he used to live in my town about 4 years ago but now he lives 4 hours away from the town that I live in because he's in college. we met on Snapchat about 2 weeks ago, and only talked a little bit but he said something about hanging out. when I would message him he would talk to me a little bit but then leave me on delivered or opened. the last thing I sent to him he left me on open. but now he is back in town and he made a private story on Snapchat and called it Bhnextdoorrrr that B and h stands for his name, so he's saying he's next door. well it's private so that means he had to have added me to thw story. well, I messaged him and he told me he wants to see me, but he had left me on read, Saturday he told me we could hang out, then Wednesday passed (yesterday) and he still didn't text me. I don't know why he was ignoring me. Yesterday morning I sent him a snap and it said "merry Christmas, have a good day" and he unadded me. I'm just so confused as to why he ditched me like that. Any ideas on why a guy would just stop talking to a girl like that. Should I try adding him back to talk to him and see?

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I did not mean to add this to the holiday category:l

[RandomUser1000]

I don't know.

Seems like immature behaviour.

"Any ideas on why a guy would just stop talking to a girl like that."

Sounds like he either met someone else or of some other reason lost interest in you.

"Should I try adding him back to talk to him and see?"

Probably not.
But I don't really know what he's thinking or doing.
Spontaneously it sounds like a bad idea. But I could be wrong.

[coxoabean]

Ya I want to add him back mainly to have some closure because it frustrates me when people do that.

[RandomUser1000]

That does make sense.

I mean you can try.
I don't know if he'll give you a proper answer.
But if you just try to get an answer and not get more involved with him. Then you probably don't have anything to lose.

Hope you find someone that cares for you more. :)

[coxoabean]

Yess, I agree. Thank you for your kind words! I hope you have a good day and a happy new year

[RandomUser1000]

That's sweet of you.
A good day and a happy new year to you as well. :)

[coxoabean]

Thank you:)

[RandomUser1000]

Thank you for Superb Opinion.

Have you heard anything more? Have you gotten any closure?

[ohsheeT]

Well was he really in town is the question

Because if he was he would have wanted to see you I would imagine I know if it would have been me I would have wanted to before I went back home or wherever he lives.

So I don't know you kind of sounds like a game tonight because even if he was in town and his family was all around and he just got caught up in things he would still want to come over and talk to you for a few minutes even and meet you

[coxoabean]

Ya that's why I don't understand, which he was in town bc he was posting pictures

[coxoabean]

And he was all fine at first, then just randomly ghosted me

[ohsheeT]

Yeah that's kind of strange because I mean if you was serious if he got caught up doing something he would at least text you and say hey I'm sorry but I can't do this right now because of blah blah blah or whatever but the way he did it it's just like he didn't care he doesn't care it's all about him

[coxoabean]

Ya, and I am just kot sure if he was wanting s*x or more. Because he asked what I wanted to do, and would talk about other things other then s*x, but then, but then also told me things that made me feel a bit off about him. I was just trying to be nice and give him the benefit of the doubt. I also did think he was really attractive and had a crush on him before so I got excited kind of when we started talking. But he asked me what I wanted to do when we hung out, so I thought "ok maybe he does genuinely just want to hang out to get to know me". I told him "we can do whatever you would like" because I was trying ti make things easier for him. Then he replied "oh whatever I want huh" then sent a message right after that one but deleted it immediately.

[ohsheeT]

Well it sounds to me like he blew it because you sound like you would have been a fun person to be around to get to know and I think he's just in the whole another world of the way he thinks and if he was really serious about meeting you I mean he would have done it I mean he could have joked with you and I mean had fun with you just words back and forth whatever that's part of the getting to know each other but if he texts you something and then delete it really quick then he knows that he was saying something probably offline out of line was too bad he should have meant up with you

[coxoabean]

Ya it's a very upsetting situation. I'm going to give it a shot adding him back and if he blocks me we'll then :/ I guess it will be awkward seeing him in real life

[ohsheeT]

Why would you even want to give him the time of day he just prove to you who he was and what he is all about

[coxoabean]

Honestly I don't know

[ohsheeT]

Well good luck

[Ms_Facesitter]

I don't know either. Boys are hard to understand, and no need to try to either. Find yourself a man who is clear with his intentions.

[coxoabean]

Yaa:/ I wish boys communicated more

[Ms_Facesitter]

Aaaand that's why they're not men in my eyes.

[coxoabean]

Yep, I agree 100% boys act childish and don't communicate, mean treat a girl right

[BasedBaeBecca]

He sounds like a flake, just forget about him. He's a waste of your time. I hope you didn't develop any feelings for him.

[coxoabean]

I did develop some:( I used to have a crush on him b4 and then we actually got to tall and I was so excited to meet up with him

[coxoabean]

*talk

[AlinaJanowska18]

Of course you can try with him, at least meet for coffee. It's doesn't mean date or start of relationship

[Sevenpointfive]

i don't understand the game of sex talk. if you want it then say it.

[coxoabean]

I didn't say I want it:l

[Sevenpointfive]

do you want it?

[coxoabean]

No..

[Sevenpointfive]

well he does

[coxoabean]

Yaa I know haha, well too bad for him.

[Sevenpointfive]

so what's the point of not telling him that you don't wanna meet up? he kind of has a right to that if you've been talking

[coxoabean]

He has the right to what

[Sevenpointfive]

to telling him that you aren't going to meet up with him for sex

[coxoabean]

Ya well he's a unkind human so I'm not going to tell him anything. Then if I see him in the store and he decides he wants to chat I'll be nice but no hanging out with him. Unless he wants to change himself

[Sevenpointfive]

if he's that bad then why do you chat with him? block him and never go to the grocery store ever again lol

[coxoabean]

I don't talk to him anymore, and I have to get food lol. But I'll just avoid him

[Sevenpointfive]

yeah. damn food. get him to pay for it? i've had plenty of girls try that on me lol. it didn't work but it might for you?

[coxoabean]

Oh haha no it's okk

[ItsAshh2009]

He sounds like a player, I would leave him alone

[Ckendrick06]

He seems very flaky

[WilliamPamer446]

Yes3