I would calmly tell him that doing this makes me feel uncomfortable & to have a conversation regarding it.
Don't go accusing anything & don't use a harsh or whining tone.
Simply bring it up "Babe, I want to let you know that you touching [insert girl's name here] arm like that makes me uncomfortable" and leave it at that until he responds & go from there. Keep your explanations short & see where his questions & responses take you.
You don't want to make him feel like he has to choose between you & his best friend, it's not your place to dictate his friends, but let him see that you want them to respect your boundaries & that particular interaction is where the line is.
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I swear girl best friends are almost always trouble, I’ve never seen one that was purely platonic unless either one wasn’t interested in the other, one or both were in a relationship, or they’ve tried in the past and it didn’t work out. The arm tickling thing for comfort is weird, having a girl best friend is weird. My current boyfriend has showed me that dynamic is sooo not ok.
Yeah, you're dating a guy whose best friend is a girl and you know it. So honestly its completely acceptable, they were friends when started dating right?
Now for me I don't by into the whole guy and girl and we are just friends thing. I always think there is some sexual tension involved on some level... but that just me. I am never just fiends with a girl unless I would fuck her if I could.
The real issue is that your insecure about this friendship, and if I was you I would be to.
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That's not normal among friends of the opposite sex.
Seems quite inappropriate
talk to him not us
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