Maybe it’s a good time to establish what your relationship is and out a title in it, if that’s what you both want. I say this because even if he was being dishonest, he doesn’t owe you loyalty since you’re not in a relationship. He also doesn’t have to be honest for the same reason, even though he should. Being in a relationship sets a lot of boundaries and gives you a lot more leeway to ask such things of him. I don't know if he’s telling you the truth, but if you think he’s lying and it’s a gut feeling then skip what I said about establishing a title and cut him off. You can’t worry about things like that.
the girl is either a creep who's fangirling over him, or there is something going on..
you should try ask the girl how she is related to the guy.
I don't agree that it's "obvious" he's lying nor that because he's following her that he's lying. If he's a good match and he likes you, give it a try. You can talk to him about it if it bothers you but start something with trust. Trust him until he proves that your trust isn't warranted.
There are plenty of scammers out there that I get the same kind of messages from. You shouldn't assume that they have a relationship without first looking at how he texts her.
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Why do you assume he's lying? Give the guy a chance.
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