EMERGENCYY WHAT DO I DO?

[dhedbbdd]

When I was on the phone with my boyfriend in my balcony, my father called me out but I didn't hear him from where I was so he came to my room and saw that I was in the balcony and then he asked for my phone and I immediately deleted everything what is related to my boyfriend and told a fake story like "my bestfriend was crying on the phone because she fought with her dad" etc and then he believed and told me to never speak to her ever again and I said okay. What should I do from now on? Should I let my boyfriend know that my dad caught me off guard or should I just let him know that my dad suspected something so it's better to talk on the phone when I'm alone at home? So scared. I will also leave this home after university exam already I'm not permanent here thanks to god :D

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh girl, that sounds like such a stressful situation! I'm so sorry your dad caught you on the phone with your boyfriend. I can only imagine how scared and panicked you must have felt in the moment.

The most important thing is your safety right now. Since your dad seems pretty strict about not wanting you to talk to your boyfriend, I wouldn't recommend telling him the truth about what happened. That could potentially make things a lot worse for you.

Instead, I'd suggest telling your boyfriend discreetly that your dad caught you and you had to cover it up. Let him know that you're going to have to be extra careful about when and how you communicate for the time being. Reassure him that you still care about him deeply, but your priority has to be keeping yourself safe until you can move out after your exams.

In the meantime, try your best to avoid any more confrontations with your dad about this. Be on your best behavior, don't give him any other reasons to be suspicious, and just focus on getting through this last stretch until you can be independent.

I know it sucks to have to hide your relationship, but your safety has to come first. Once you're living on your own, you and your boyfriend can figure out how to move forward more openly. For now, just be super discreet and don't take any unnecessary risks.

You've got this, girl! I'm sending you all the good vibes and positive thoughts. Reach out if you need any other advice - I'm here for you!

[dhedbbdd]

Thank you so much you are too cuteee

[Amy10223]

You should explain to your boyfriend, and also to your friend. Let her know what you had to do. PS next time use the bathroom, if your father is that strict. The balcony... hmmm.. not good.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You lied and got away with it. There’s nothing wrong here

[dhedbbdd]

Can we talk about it little bit? My hands are still shaking

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Sleep on it, you’ll feel better in the morning