I found out that someone is playing matchmaker but I’m not looking for any relationships because don’t have the time for them anymore?

[Anonymous]

I found out from a friend that someone is playing matchmaking for me or there looking for someone who I could match and date when I’m not looking for any relationships because I don’t have the time or the energy anymore. I already have a few ex’s but things didn’t work out with them and the last one she ( 38F ) changed her preferences on me and now only dates men in his 20s. I told them I don’t have the time and energy anymore because I work all the time now.

[Anonymous]

Interesting she only wants a younger man now. More common for a man to look for younger I would think. I'd guess you are in a good position if you want to be.

[Asker]

There is older women and MILFs still bangs younger man.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but at 38 I'm guessing she wants a family though and she doesn't have time to play about.

[Asker]

She 38F has two kids and younger man makes her happy now, but I do have another ex who is 34F and her Mexican husband is 44M and his tacos makes her more happy then my tacos meaning his cooking got her more attached his cooking then mine 🤷‍♂️

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, makes sense. Maybe your can find one without kids when you're next in the market.

[Asker]

Again I do have another ex 35F without kids but her sisters 40F and 42F hates my guts because I’m white and they want her sister 35F only date Indian guys

[KathrynTaylor]

Fair enough.

[Asker]

It’s too much drama 🎭

[KathrynTaylor]

I personally think you just haven’t met the right person yet, but I also think it’s a waste of time to date arseholes and bums (these can be female too).

[Asker]

Sadly. I don’t have the time to be with the right person either. It’s my choice

[KathrynTaylor]

Absolutely your decision. Only you know what’s right for you.