How to get over someone you can’t get over?

[Anonymous]

There was a girl I really liked. We kissed, we went out but then she ended it. It was in September and iam still not over her. I am getting sick of it. She is now in relationshio with my friend so it hurts even more

[Anonymous]

It’s best you find another girl that you like and take your time when you get to know another women be friends with her first get to know her go visit different places eat etc and then be in a relationship

Don’t worry about this correct girl if she is dating your best friend and rejevtited you without giving you a chance I don’t perceive her stable she is rather messy ~ someone who’s doin going to be a single mama someone who’s not proper to have a Long Term Relationship!
So take your time don’t worry about this bitch

[surebruh]

In my experience you don't ever "get over it" rather you learn to live with it. A life time ago a girl i dated and really cared for suddenly ended the relationship and shortly after started dating other guys, it took me nearly a year to "get over it" which made it near impossible to even think about another woman... was I ever young and naive :D.

You can't hurry anything it has to run its course. Imagine my teenage self that was in mourning for nearly 1 year seeing my adult self approaching multiple women in the same day and telling other women not to call me if I can't remember them by the time they reply to not even write me at all. Take care of yourself buddy and don't read into it too much

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you never try you will never know & in life the only way to move is forward & as for you it’s time to move forward & I know you can do it.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

The advice I give everyone when they can’t get over someone is to focus on improving yourself. Use that energy to to become the person you want to be. That way if they come back you’re a better person for them and yourself. If they don’t come back, well, then at least that time wasn’t wasted and you’re left with the improvements you’ve made to yourself. Either way it’s a win-win situation. 🙂

[TinaLeeDawn]

That has to be even worse than not being over her and seeing her with another guy, the guy is your friend that you would normally want to talk to in this case. Was difficult for me to get over the last guy I was with. I think I'm about 90% there, not seen him for a while though so who knows if I run into him. I just try not to dwell on it, to do things that keep me occupied so that my mind doesn't drift to him. (Except when doing post like this.)

[Anemone978]

Just try to think of all her bad qualities and she is with a different guy...
I know its hard and probably hurts a lot but just try to let it go, make new friends, do fun things, so you ain't alone just thinking and missing her.

[Paris13]

Focus on you and Go out with Friends and Don't wear your Heart on your Sleeve so fast. Go slow from now on. xx

[exitseven]

You never really get over it. In the dark of night you will lie awake at night and all of a sudden the whole thing will come back. You just have to put it out of your mind nd get on with your life.

[Perverted_Creep]

Some people can't get over junk food. While I lose appetite from it, because I chose to be this way. Yes we can choose what we like to an extent. So you go and change it.

[ChillaxingLove]

It sucks but there is no easy answer out of that. You have to just embrace the feeling of loss and move on afterwards. Supportive friends is what you need right now to hangout with

[DizzyDesii]

I don't know how to explain it but im over people within 24-72 hours (business days not necessary). Its like something just switches in me

[Sam2021]

Give it more time stop forcing it just let it be. You will eventually move on, But cut off your so called friend who is dating her now. Time is the best healer, focus on yourself

[sheikalana]

Give it some time. It really takes time to get over someone. In six months to one year you'll feel much better.

[Vikkrram]

Hey some girl posted same thing i recently read that

[BrightBubblyKat]

Just give it time. Avoid her as much as possible.

[RACSKC0B]

The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone new.

[BobSansMal]

You wait until enough time has past that you've been able to grow beyond this person.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Find someone else and pound your pent up frustrations into her and blow your hurt all over her insides

[Jmmmfi4]

I've been dealing with this problem for over 4 years

[CA4444]

Time I guess I don’t know…😪

[Jamesier]

Passing through the same thing

[Wise4myage]

Finding a new lover would sure help.

[Joker_]

find someone else to lust over

[In_Trance]

How are you going to do it if you can't?

[Engin12]

you can get over it by playing this game

[Engin12]

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