How does rejection influence guys in future?

[Anonymous]

[D_Bone_Steak]

It really depends... if I got strung along and rejected because I didn't buy her a dress... then fuck that bitch, not my problem, and I didn't like her anyways. I think most manipulations... I mean rejections are just that kind of shit. Bitch is trying to steal shit and she failed. With all of that said... how would it affect me?

I guess it's a red pill moment. I'm going to have to come to terms with the fact that I didn't mean shit to this woman except for what she had a chance to get out of me. I'm not bomb, I'm not gangsta, and just a blue pilled beta bitch that almost fell for some shit. Shit that even your female friends would point out as lame as fuck.

At best... swallow your pride and try with another girl. Due to the redpilling though, you'll see right through the bullshit... there is the very real chance you become the dude that calls a chick out for looking for a free meal. Just is what it is.

[FoolShiro]

A male perspective will help you most with a question like this. I'm very sorry if that sounds like I'm undermining any women who answer this question, but the female perspective of male behavior is almost always wrong.

Rejection for men is never one way. For most guys, it can be devastating. For a very long time, society has expected men to initiate in these types of situations, and having done this, I can confirm that it is no easy task.

Building the courage to walk up to a stranger in hopes that they show even the slightest amount of interest can be a herculean task for a some people, especially those who are not so strongly suited in social skills. After a while, a lot of guys don't really see a point in doing it, because rejection makes them feel lacking in worth. Why would you want to run into a wall over and over again if everytime you've tried before it wouldn't budge?

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Rejection for men or women is a part of life. Learning to deal with it is more important. It builds character. How one deals with rejection is more telling about their personality than how they deal with success. Will they be a baby and act sullen or will it strengthen their conviction?

[jennifer_bloom]

I think men feel betrayed or disbelieving when they are turned away by a lady they believe they are able to get and the reason they feel this way is they are not going by circumstantial cues but personal desires instead.

[SnowedIn]

It makes a lot of them less willing to be bold and ask a girl out in the future. And that leads to a lot of the game playing between guys and girls that exists today.

At the same time, guys need to get better about accepting rejection. It doesn't mean they're a loser. It just means no from that girl.

But rejection hurts and sucks.

[cth96190]

We learn to expect it, especially if the female is a bitch and/or she is an indoctrinated Feminist, who goes on a rant about sexual harassment.
After a while, a lot of men stop trying. A dog can be kicked only so many times before it learns to stay away.

[HighlyQuestionable]

1. It deprives them of hope.
2. It makes them feel unloved and worthless.
3. It makes them think that they don't deserve what most others have (relationship, love, etc.)
4. It damages their physical and mental health.
5. It causes them to die earlier.

So, Ladies/Women, realise that rejecting men/guys/boys, etc. actually hurts them (especially if they are "nice"). If by any chance you actually care.

[Anonymous]

Rejection is fine. Repeated rejection gets to you after awhile. You wonder whether you’re ugly, or creepy or even likable at all. You wonder if you have anything to offer anyone. The more your friends and family ask why you’re still single and give you compliments the more you think they’re just lying to your face. Eventually you give up entirely and focus on material things to make you temporarily happy and either try to find something that gives you a purpose or you just give up.

[AdithyaR]

Depends on the kind of person and the kind of rejection.
For me rejection in academic and career fields makes me analyse my mistakes and work harder to get them.
Romantic rejection makes me hate myself for even trying.

[Reece12345]

Very damaging if it's continual for a long time.

[LiamJHayden]

The only thing it does for me is to let me know not to ask that particular girl again. If I remember. I ask so many that I have probably hit on some more than once.

[Anonymous]

I'd say it depends on the amount of rejection. One "no" didn't bother me. 100 "no's" did.

Now I just find it easier to let women approach me.

[Sam2021]

Rejection has never turned out good.. in my experience.

[pmnbtj]

Generally men are programmed for rejection. That's is simply because , men brains thinks differently, nature equipped it self , with more female then men. However women take rejection very badly.

[AmeerX]

Men going there own way mentality which is not healthy

[boggboss]

Depends on the guy and how the rejection works

[FunkyMonkee]

POORLY!!

[Anonymous]

If its a man it doesn't