Could a girl ever be scared of breaking up for making the wrong decision?

[Anonymous]

Like she’s indecisive she’s not sure she wants me in her future but also she’s afraid she might not be able to find another guy like me

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Those feelings are more common than you think. Sometimes we doubt our own decisions because we’re afraid of making the wrong ones. Sometimes we’re afraid we won’t get second chances. She has doubts about the relationship—that’s the thing to focus on, because that is what’s in her heart. She feels like she won’t find another great guy to love her— that’s what she’s believing in her head.

[Asker]

But she has admitted to loving me and not letting go of what we have cause I said I’m fine with us separating but she doesn’t want to let go

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Has she told you why she wasn’t sure about you in her future?

[Asker]

It’s her indecisiveness she has admitted that she’s hung up on dumb things and that it made not be realistic

[Akam93]

Us women are also complicated human beings. We never know what we want. Just want to find a man who accepts our personalities and just be there for her.

[Asker]

Yeah but the guy should have the right to be able to move on if she can’t decide cause how is it fair if she can’t decide

[Akam93]

He does have a right. He doesn't have to stay at all.

[In_Trance]

probably

[Asker]

What could the consequences be

[In_Trance]

that depends on the relationship or lack there of