Something that interests you in a person?

[defnotsafe]

something in a person that interests you at first sight?

[SueShe]

At first sight, it is not possible for me to be interested in a person because I need to know much more than what is possible just at first sight. The first sight says nothing about the intellect, character and personality of that person.

Since I am not interested in how a person looks, I would need to

[defnotsafe]

i think I agree with that

[SueShe]

sorry, I pressed the wrong key.

To continue...

I would need to study that person's 3 most important assets first and that takes much more time than simply looking at him/her. I would need at least 6 months to be able to make a valid judgment about that person.

To sum up: character, intellect and personality are the only 3 things that really interest me in a person, regardless of gender.

[defnotsafe]

6 months? its too much

[SueShe]

People seldom show their true personality in the beginning. It is only by knowing them more in details that you can find out what they have been trying to hide. Some people need 10+ years to find out how a person really ticks...

[defnotsafe]

you are really obsessed

[SueShe]

by what?

[SphynxUK]

At first sight, it would have to be something about their appearance.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Attitude. Although I'm kool with being single after years of failed long terms. She would have to be confident without being bossy, respectful and not pretending for her own gain.

[Guy13]

Intellect, gentleness, shape.

[defnotsafe]

good guy<3

[Guy13]

Some say I’m picky but I guess intellect becsuse I hate being bored.

[EmmaMary]

Appearance and Personality

[defnotsafe]

Appearance?

[EmmaMary]

Yes appearance... No one wants to see a scruffy, dirty, unkempt longhaired lowlife.

[defnotsafe]

yes, that's true, but you shouldn't attribute it entirely to external appearance

[EmmaMary]

Why not?

If someone hasn't any pride in their appearance, then they certainly do not deserve to have any of my time.

[Saamee]

Girl is she smoking in front of me

[Anonymous]

I don't know.