He also was talking about sex a lot on the first date which made me a bit uncomfortable. When he realised I'm a virgin he made this joke about how it makes sense I watch a YouTuber because a lot of incels watch him. When I said I saw a ghost he asked did schizophrenia run in my family🤨😅 I think he's cute but his rudeness and talking about his previous sexual experiences was a huge turn off. Should I go on another date with him?
When the first date goes bad in any kind of way, there should be no second date.
Makes about as much sense as burning your hand on an oven and then touching it again because you’re not sure it was actually hot.
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Probably just nerves or sometimes people give offence unintentionally thinking they are hilarious and charming but are just not as funny or as charming as they think they are.
It's not normal to talk about sex on the first day. And definitely it's a no-go to make fun of a virgin girl cause she didn't have sex yet. It's her choice. He is a dumbass, leave him and find another guy.
When you see that many warning signs on a first date. . . how many more do you need to see before you pull the plug on this guy?
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If you’re waiting and he’s too into sex and irs creeping you out. Maybe this ain’t a good idea with him.
I'd advise against it. At best this guy is a sarcastic, full-of-himself douchebag, who may have good intentions but either nerves or inexperience has him trying too hard; at worst he was showing you his true self... a self that obviously wants to sleep you and feels that he is superior. Either way, these are major red flags. He either needs to work on being more confident and not try to come across like PUA bullshit con-artists out there suggest or he's a legitimate douche who just wants to get you in bed and doesn't respect your opinions or beliefs.
Yes he was rude. Yes it is rude to make a joke about being a virgin.
No, you should not go on a date with him.
Why is this a question? You must be attracted to this...
Wow, this guy sounds like an asshole. I hope you didn't decide to proceed with him.
Nah you can do better than him. Nothing wrong with being a Virgin, I didn't lose mine until I was 24. It's all personal preference
Was it a first date? How much detail did he go into?
Passive aggression was a turn off for me.
I wouldn't. Sounds like a jerk.
no, ditch him.
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