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If you make fun of a guy for being a virgin, are you being serious about it?

Anonymous
A girl I know made several insensitive comments about me being a virgin. We were talking about dating apps because she just started using one and asked if I also used one as well. After talking for a while I shared that I have never dated or had sex despite being 25. She said things like "how did you go this long without getting laid?" And "that's a red flag" when I told her that I haven't had a girlfriend yet. Then when she asked me why, I just told her that I'm unlucky and haven't found someone to date. She replies with "that doesn't happen because you're unlucky" and then goes on to suggest terrible things about me (she was clearly hinting at me being incel). I blocked her because I didn't want to deal with it, and now she texted me from a different number ane said "sorry I got carried away please unblock me." Why does she even bother asking me to unblock her? In my mind, you don't say things like this because you got "carried away." People say these things when they look down on other people and want to hurt them. I didn't do anything that should have warranted a negative reaction like this. Do you think she is genuinely sorry or is she just playing with me?
If you make fun of a guy for being a virgin, are you being serious about it?
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