Will a guy care if you are virgin?

Will a guy care if you are a virgin?
How do guys feel if they are your first kiss and you have little to no experience with making out?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Nah if he gives a shit it's generally cause it turns him on and if its a turnoff, its generally not because you're a virgin and more because you're being extremely difficult and the mountains of virgin insecurity they have to go through just to get their rocks off. Ultimately no guy cares if you're inexperienced, he just cares if you wallow in your inexperience and use it to ruin the experiences in the here and now that could be happening. Which is actually something virgins do often, and i've had friends suggest not to even bother with virgins for this very reason. But you can avoid this problem by making it clear that you're willing to actually do stuff with him.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • There will always be a person who will care. The reason WHY they care is extremely important. The right kind of person cares about your virginity because sexual purity in both a physical manner and spiritual manner besides, mentally, emotionally and psychologically is going to impact you and your sexual identity as a person. It will determine whether or not your relationship will get to marriage, and to even stay married. Studies have shown that those who didn't wait and had 2 partners or more are at higher risk of divorce. Remember that your virginity is a part of you that you give to others if you don't stay one till your married. You become one with them in everything. But most guys who are secular don't care about virginity. They mainly care about whether or not you'll have sex with them. Some prefer experienced, usually, they have more partners/higher chance of having an STD. Others are just virgin hunters: they don't care about marriage, they just want a virgin because she'll be tighter and would be attached to sexually. Less likely to cheat on them. The ones you want if your waiting which I hope is somebody who is waiting for marriage to experience those things, cares about your virginity and what are your thoughts and views about sex. But most would be happy to know you still are or could be your first love/sex partner. Again, it matters about what are his intentions with you, usually, it's about sex or having a sexual relationship, and what are his plans for the future besides his views and moral principle. You should be more concerned about yourself and be secure about being a virgin and your desires than the other person right now. Until you are confident enough not to ask this question, it is best to withhold the idea of having sex or a boyfriend/dating.

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What Guys Said 6

  • I wouldn't mind, if she was a virgin.

    I'd actually be very flattered, that she wanted me to be her first kiss, make out, etc. It shows that she considers you to be someone special, and that means a lot.

    At the same time; it would be very sweet, and endearing, to be able to teach/guide her, in those things, and help her learn, and gain experience.

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  • Actually that'll be considered a bonus if she's a virgin and if she's inexperienced in kissing.. Matters little. As long as you make and effort. I honestly wouldn't mind.

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  • I think that it would form an even closer bond honestly. but if your asking if he will dislike you because you are a virgin? most probably not.

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  • I don't care if she's a virgin or not. I think it would be incredibly hot to be with a girl and it be her first time.

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  • na he will note. He on the other hand will be happy.

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  • I'm more concerned with bra size.

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