i told a guy this who is 22 last night. he seemed very uncomfortable and said i should just lose it. i don't want to lose it to someone i don't care about.
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah don't listen to him. Most guys don't care, some guys might freak out a bit because well it is kind of a responsibility because your her first and the guy doesn't want to "ruin" her if the relationship fails or she doesn't like it or what have you. But in general most men will appreciate it because it shows that one, you have self control (that's always attractive) two you see sex as a big deal (which it should be as your letting some one literally inside you (most people who sleep around show greater discreation when letting some one in side their house which is sad) and so if/when you have sex with that person it will actually be a meaningful act, a gift if you will which will carry much greater weight then if you had slept around. So I think most guys, specifically guys who are looking for long term relationships will appreciate it.2
Most Helpful Girl
It shouldn't really matter to them if they're mature enough to not let stuff like that bother them. It should be irrelevant to what they feel for you1