Why doesn't my family?

[Fzrz6455]

Leave me alone and let me live my life, allthey do is try to piss me off and tell me i am weak, they stalk me on social media and spread rumors about me

[wheist9095]

Firstly, what culture are you from? If it comes from a cultural angle people outside of that culture won't be able to give you much helpful advice.

I don't know your situation, so it is hard to say what is going on. Maybe they try to rely on you, maybe they want you to support them, maybe you rely on them and they think your ideas for a career or whatever would not pan out.

Toxic family traits like that aren't entirely uncommon, they want you to be weak so that you will stay as part of the group. Depending on the financial situation, weather they support you or you support them changes things a lot.

Otherwise if you are fully independent, meaning you have your own place and job and vehicle, then you don't have to talk to your family. You can fully cut off contact with toxic family, it works better if you move away. But they will continue to spread rumors and stalk your social media, because there's no way to stop that

[Fzrz6455]

Arab

[wheist9095]

Okay, that makes a big difference. If you're in an Arab country there's not a lot you can do. Otherwise, you can try to talk to them and tell them that you want to be more independent, and that if they don't let you have the freedom that you need that they may not be a part of your life anymore. You have to be ready to completely cut off your family, if you can. It's not an easy thing to do, and if you cut them off you can't really go back