I don't like my family?

[Anonymous]

Seriously I don't like my family nor cares what happens to them as they mentally and emotionally abuse me and cause unnecessary drama and stress in my life that isn't needed impacting my relationship. They don't respect my boundaries and treat me horribly... I'm kinda tired of them , but when I cut them off they try to find a way to come into my life with the same drama despite the fact that I have moved on. ( Stalking me , harassing me , and calling law enforcement to my property)

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If they dropped dead , I wouldn't care or attend their furneal

[rosemilk]

you set these boundaries and cut them off, yet they still find a way back? that must mean you broke your own boundary and allowed it. stop allowing it again.

[Asker]

No, they show up to my house, stalking, harassing despite being blocked and warned they cause unnecessary drama and stress because they're toxic and dysfunctional... my next step is a restraining order and or no contact

[Asker]

Some people are fucked up mentally that would be my family... if I move soon.. there not going to know where I'm at

[rosemilk]

well damn. yeah you need to move and not tell anyone where you moved. i do hope you call the cops whenever they show up at your house.

[BetaBucks]

I don't like your family either. People should never treat their loved ones that way. You'll be happier away from them. Assuming your perception is accurate...

[DrPepper12]

I've been estranged from mine for about a decade. I feel free! I understand! Good for you to choose yourself over their toxicity!!

[MasterKS]

Thats what happening nowadays! Being individual is right way of living! I went through almost similar situation!

[Asker]

What did you do? How did you cope?

[Asker]

Did boundary work?

[Asker]

Boundaries...

[MasterKS]

@asker its family matter, how do i share in public? you can ask privately if you want!

[Asker]

You can share here

[MasterKS]

@asker family stuffs is not for the public!

[Asker]

Why I'm private and don't care about my family

[Asker]

I'm not here to appease them and it's not like anyone knows me here unless you're talking about your situation you rather keep it private

[MasterKS]

@asker i understand but why i share personal details for public? We can discuss in private and help each other, its upto you buddy!

[Asker]

I think toxic family members need to be exposed so people can be aware of who they are if they share the same experiences - my family is messed up

[MasterKS]

@asker my point of view is different, whatever i suffer i won't say here for any ordinary shit, its serious discussion, you are welcome in my private but not here in open public!