Is it normal for a guy to always want u to meet him half way?

[Anonymous]

So I’m seeing this guy he says he’s mad about me I like him too but I’m being weary also as I’ve been hurt multiple times in the past so I don’t want to jump the gun if you get me.

I like to take my time with things.

But like he’s only 25 mins drive from my house and he always wants me to meet him half way can he not just drive to me?

I just don’t see why I have to keep meeting him in the middle I’ve had other guys who would pick me up no problem and they were driving longer distance.

Am I being unfair?

[Guy13]

You are not being rude and the first thing that pops into my head is this guy is hiding something. It makes me wonder if he has a girlfriend or wife. Have you not straightforwardly said, “I want you to pick me up…the extra 10 miles should be no big deal.” Unless, the girlfriend or wife is watching the mileage or has tracking device on his phone or the car. Something is definitely not right.

How long do you two spend together per meeting ?

[Asker]

He told me he has never had a relationship before which I was shocked at tbh but we would spend about 7 hours with each other when we would meet up

[Guy13]

I have never heard of such a thing but he has his reasons. It would be nice if he would be straight with them...

[Asker]

Yeah I feel he’s not for me he keeps taking hours to reply to my messages and then doesn’t make a great of effort to see me

[Guy13]

Yeah, sounds like there are better for you out there.

[BJP21]

Depends on what his transportation situation is. 25 min isn't that bad as compared to a 1-2 hr or more drive. I think your being reasonable. Or take turns.

[Asker]

He drives a nice car. And thank you yeah I don’t even mind turns I just don’t see the point in two cars dragging them around ye kno

[BJP21]

I agree. Im with you there. I drive a nice car to but not to a point where I got to say meet you half way.

[Asker]

Yeah it’s so weird lol

[ShellyB]

It is a little weird but there may be a reason for it, have you said something like "can you just pick me up" and if so what did he say? Maybe he is shy around your roommates or something like that? If not, I would find it a little weird but not something to break up over. JMO!

[Asker]

Lol we’re not even dating yet but I love at home with my parents I’ve had guys pick me up from my home before you know

[Girlpoop]

He has a wife

[Asker]

He’s 23…