When should a guy let his girlfriend know marriage isn't a goal?

[TopTier]

[dustybiker]

As soon as possible. Being honest prevents a persons time being wasted. If that had been your goal and not hers you wouldn't want her to waste yours.

[skeetskeetskeet]

Well you don't if it's that important to her... of it comes up just kick that ball down the field some more... next year is much netter than this year

[TopTier]

I would agree with you. I dont see what it matters if you're married anyway. If you like the person you like them.

[skeetskeetskeet]

Yeah... plus you don't have to pay them to leave if it goes bad

[TopTier]

Thats why they want marriage. If it goes bad in ten years, they're in their mid thirties and feel like they got nothing out of their youth.

[skeetskeetskeet]

Exactly

[Nxtawm]

early on, honestly before you even started dating

[AnyAdviceAppreciated]

As soon as you know. Its not fair on either of you to keep dragging it out and will only make the breakup harder the longer it is.

[Vikkrram]

Buddy you should tell her from beginning

[joeldalton]

yes, so that she can move on.

[lwshm64]

immediately

[boggboss]

From the start