I've been talking to a girl for the last three months. Tomorrow is are first date and my dad wanted to talk to her before we meet and I meet her family. Well my dad asked her "Why do you like my son?" And her reply was nothing. She was speechless. So my question is should I be hurt from this because honestly I would expect something at least one thing since we've been talking for three months. I personally can name a ton of stuff that I like about her so why can't she?
She's 22 I'm 23. This is both are first legit relationship. I've dated one person who was long distance and she's never dated.
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Your Dad is demonstrating that there is no intentionality in her life. She’s going through life wasting Time. If she liked and respected you then she would have a reply and an intentionality about herself.
It may be the first time that she has had to answer for actions or intent. She is likely not the one who will be able to meet your needs….
Or she just didn't have time to make a good story up...
@Truthatanycost Did you have to make up a story….
No but I've observed women answering others with planned responses until they were caught off guard. it made me think back to that.
@Truthatanycost Gotcha, alright.
I mean to be fair, meeting someone’s family when y’all haven’t even been on an official date yet is kind of a lot…I feel like y’all put her on the spot
Her parents believe in courtship. So I'm meeting her parents before are date. I'm new to the courtship idea but I'm trying my best to learn and adapt to this situation.
But I understand why you would say that.
Oh well either way, I think she might of just been shy and a little awkward about the question. I wouldn’t take it personally
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