Dating

Help me understand this?

Lord_bdog

Hi everyone,

Help me understand this very confusing dating situation please.

Timeline:

  • I meet a girl ("J") November 11th 2022. I text her that night, she responds the next day once, then ghosts me.
  • She hooks up with a guy the first night she meets him a little while later
  • She hooks up with a couple other guys
  • I meet her again June 2nd 2023. We both forgot we had previously met. She doesn't want to go home with me that night. She texts me back the next day and invites me over to hang out. She then flakes on that date and ghosts me AGAIN. I follow her on instagram to try to get her attention
  • She responds in July after I message her again on her instagram story.
  • She is rude to me every time I see her in person out at different bars (like 4 times june-august).
  • She invites me over August 5th. --> we start dating from then on out.

I had asked if she had sex with any other guys after we met the second time in June, and she said no. So we started dating for 3 months. I find out 3 weeks ago that she lied and had sex with a married guy a week after we met in June. I became distant and had sex with another girl a couple days ago. I tried to come back and she doesn't want to forgive me for that.

Her reasoning is that we hadn't hung out yet. But my reasoning is that: she didn't give me a chance to hang out with her and instead fucked another guy... If I knew she had hooked up with a guy a few days after we met a second time in June I never would've even spoien to her again.

Any insights?

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