Would an unromantic guy fake being romantic (listening to lovesongs, romantic gestures etc.) to impress a girl he only wants to hook up with?

[Anonymous]

[Logos25]

He could, but you would only find out about it later. Potentially, any one could be faking anything. But why assume the worst? Maybe he really is romantic.

[Asker]

Assuming the worst to not get hurt and waste time

[Logos25]

Missing out on a good relationship can also be hurtful and could be a source of regret later on. If we always assumed the worst we'd never do anything or connect with anyone. Developing any relationship involves a certain degree of risk and vulnerability. If there are real warning signs that she is deceptive, that would be a reason to avoid him, but you didn't mention any.

[Asker]

Never met a guy that did not disappoint me in some way. Even if it was just a good friend

[Logos25]

Well I would look at how he treats his own family as a good indication. For example, a man who is extremely respectful and caring towards his mother and sister is more likely to be kind towards a potential partner. The same applies to how he treats his friends. Is he loyal and caring towards them? Look at the pattern of his other relationships, not just romantic ones.

[In_Trance]

You answered your own question

[Asker]

I did not

[In_Trance]

" to impress a girl he wants to hook up with"

[Asker]

The question is "Would he?"

[In_Trance]

Of course; people do shit like this all the time