Do men try to gauge girls interest if they assume that she has an unreciprocated crush on him?

[Anonymous]

Lately my crush started being More touchy with me and giving me Long stares. He Never seemed interested in me before so I‘m wondering if He changed his behaviour because He noticed my crush on him and wants to Confirm his believe.

Is this actually a thing? Would a guy Act Flirty towards a Woman He is Not attracted to only to find out if she is crushing on him?

[Anarcamus]

https://www.reddit.com/r/UnsentLetters/comments/13j27hd/its_a_pipe_dream/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

He know about all the others as well as me thinking we were exclusive till April. Not six months ago?

[Steelcore5280]

Attracted or not, in a world that's been affected by the Me Too movement (a world where men can quite literally lose their livelihoods, jobs, and social lives over even a false allegation by a woman), men need to actually test and figure out if a woman is interested in them or not by doing certain things, to test the waters.

I'm not about to be falsely accused of some shit like harassment or sexual assault by a woman. We've all seen what the Johnny Depp/Amber Heard case revealed about the unbalanced powers between the two genders. Johnny is a famous and wealthy man, and he was still put through a ringer. Imagine the situation of your average guy.

[Asker]

My question was if He would Test the Waters if He was Not attracted to her

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. Some people do start liking someone after finding out they like them even if they didn’t before.


If you really wanna know. Ask him out

[Anonymous]

Depends. They can play mind games but take the guy I’m crushing on. He’s really nice and helpful and always seems to be targeting me in a group. He hinted that he wanted me to go out with him without actually saying it. I think he is trying to keep it professional as I am a student of his for flight school. (He’s only a couple years older than me). I was going to ask him out for drinks but there was way too many people in the building and I chickened out. But I will see him again.

[Anonymous]

Well I have been bitchy before, I didn’t like a guy but I noticed he liked me, then when I saw him talk to other girls, I got jealous because I thought his attention should be mine, so I tried to lure him in but I didn’t really like him.
I’d say there are people who are just possessive and toxic like I was before. They could be just playing games instead of having genuine interest in you.
A guy who is truly interested won’t play games. You need time to tell

[Jazzy54]

Honestly, I’m over trying to figure men out. If you don’t come right out and say how you feel about me, please get lost. I’m tired of “hints.” 🙄Therefore, who knows? 🤷🏽‍♀️

[strateguy632]

i doubt that, i would not act that way. it is probly his other stuff in life that annoyed him

[Asker]

What do you mean By „annoyed“? I Never Said He was annoyed

[In_Trance]

sometimes

[Anonymous]

I certainly would.

[Asker]

Oh god :(

[Asker]

And what Reaction from her would Tell you that she is indeed crushing on you?

[Opinion Owner]

How much attention she gives me.