Can a guy get turned on by a girl he's not attracted to physically?

[Anonymous]

I was feeling very upset and emotional after a certain situation in my life and my guy friend hugged me after I started crying a little. He kept reassuring and running his hands up and down my spine and then after a few minutes said we should stop because he was liking it more than he should and was experiencing physical discomfort from it.

Do guys feel/react that way when hugging any girl or just when they are attracted to one?

yes

no

sometimes

[WoIIie]

Yes, it can happen. Testosterone usurps rational thought. When he got intimate with you, the idea of "she is a friend I am comforting" soon became "this is a female accepting my advances" as hormones mobilized and sent signals to his brain spurring arousal.

I remember having a moment like this and it was pretty embarrassing. I was 15 and visiting with distant cousins in a small village in another country. One of my cousins was literally won a beauty pageant and was in her competition shape, so she was stunning by all definitions. I think she is the daughter of my mom's sister and we had never met prior to this trip.

We were watching a show one night and she sat next to me and started rubbing my back. I thought, cool this feels nice. I was thankful for the free massage. After about a minute I popped a raging boner and my 15 year old brain was just floored with sexual thoughts. Keep in mind, it's not like I had access to p*rn or an abundance of hot girls in this village. It was no longer my cousin next to me, it was a beauty pageant winner rubbing me and I was about to jizz on myself. Luckily it was in the middle of a show and it was easier to stay seated than do something I'd regret. Man, them hormones can be killers.

I shared this embarrassing story to hopefully give you some perspective.

[EvilPimp]

Yes if he has went without sex for a long time. Like a guy who has been in prison for a long time and just got out if he didn't have a gf , baby mama, side chicks or a wife would fuck a girl that he normally wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole.

[TheStaff_Sergeant]

I can't speak on the behalf of all guys, but under ideal circumstances, I myself can't. As far as I know, I've always been turned on by someone I was attracted to.

[Apophis]

I'd say most guys can be aroused by girls they wouldn't normally find attractive.
If you are into him, I don't think you should let that stop you. That may not be the case for him.

[Anonymous1971]

And you should have said how can I help you with your discomfort.

[26ukdude]

yes to "Do guys feel/react that way when hugging any girl"
or yes to "or just when they are attracted to one?"
the poll is confusing

[Thatguy321]

If your extremely attracted to a girl or you dont have that much experience with a girl it can do that to you

[Red_Dragon]

He's attracted to you physically, but understands y'all are just friends.

[Anonymous]

That's sounds a bit sadistic. He's getting off on you crying.

[ThreeIn]

Its not common. but it happens.

[Anonymous]

His physical discomfort was a boner.

[kalrodkal]

Yes they can