Why do we chance after the one that don’t want us’ like the more reject the more you want them?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Once someone rejects another two possible outcomes occur. One is the person simply falls apart emotionally crushed. The second reaction is often anger, hurt, and some sense of hate. As we calm down that angry hate often turns back into the original lust we had for them. It is even more intensified now as we have been rejected and want to prove our worth to that person. People are very subject to abuse and mistreatment at that time as they "will do anything to be with him/her".

[Asker]

This is definitely me and so far I still blow sent them pictures of myself. Of course they’re interested in sex even if they say they’re not got angry with them, they start caring for them. It’s been a whole whirlwind.

[Guy13]

Sounds pretty wide open and frantic. You seem to like it though 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

I like the person that the situation, and even today. If they could take it all back, they would. I don’t know the premise of that text, but I wish it was good and not the ladder.

[Guy13]

Yeah, it is like starting at ground zero, stuck there for three month, and just awaiting the bottom to fall out.

[Asker]

Lol 😅 yeah better will come along and I won’t have an empty feeling. Hopefully I can replace me wanting that person to self care in better on my job and stuff.

[Danny_dan92]

We want what we cannot have

[Anonymous]

I think that person who rejected you becomes a conquest. You either like them a lot and really want them to like you as well, or you can’t stand the feeling of being undesired.