Why do exes message you if they’ve been dating with someone else and seem to be happier there?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Comparing and seeing possible back-up option.

[Asker]

Why would they consider a backup option? They seem happy.

[Asker]

I’d never be anyones back up option. If they didn’t want me before they don’t get me now.

[Guy13]

You're a smart girl. Some guys body hop because the buzz wears off. After awhile the inkling for the other girl returns. She gets reevaluated as she has been kept in the Accessible position. Some guys would play both sides of the fence if the opportunity presented itself.

[Asker]

Thanks. Yeah, I’m not interested in that though for obvious reasons.

[Echosoul]

Checking up on me because doesn't completely not care about me

[Asker]

So just friendliness then 😊

[boggboss]

To see if you are still hooked I would guess

[Asker]

What’s the point of that though? Ego boost?

[boggboss]

Ego boost or side piece

[Asker]

That’s a bit sad if they feel they need that level of validation tbh

[boggboss]

Yet many do it and get validation women to agree

[Asker]

What does that say about his new relationship though

[boggboss]

That it probably ain't going to last

[Asker]

Well they’re now friends with each other’s parents. Weird.

[boggboss]

Meh its whatever

[Asker]

I think that makes it harder to end things though when your lives are more entwined

[boggboss]

But what does that matter he is your ex no

[Asker]

I’m just speaking from my own experience. It matters because he’s trying to rope me in. I know many guys generally act more selfish and cold to appear strong, but I think many women are more genuinely open and real about things.

[boggboss]

But I dont see why your still in communication with him ehrn he is like this

[Asker]

We agreed to be friends. Something I meant at the time.

[Asker]

Why does it matter to you?

[boggboss]

Never said it did I just asked because u seem to put a lot of enegy into his life for just a friend

[Asker]

Not at all, that’s just your own assumption. Not really sure how a bit of curiosity is a lot of effort 🤷🏼‍♀️

[boggboss]

It is but its a assumption based past history I have seen plenty of people do the exact same as what you are doing and claim I'm just wondering why I don't actually care yet seem to be focused on why and how it would effect him

[Asker]

Understandable but I don’t feel like I need to justify what I know. Moving on/back to the point.

[boggboss]

So dont lol also what point the answer was given not much more to say on the subject

[Asker]

For you clearly not

[boggboss]

What else is there to say lol

[Anonymous]

It's always fun to talk with donated toys. 😊

[Asker]

If you’re young and immature sure

[Opinion Owner]

We all are immature in someone eyes 😘

[Asker]

I’m not too sure about that, but regardless, it’s not an excuse.

[Opinion Owner]

You sound smart & intelligent
May I know the colour of your nipple? 😊

[Sasha0426]

@savagewolf22: Dude, the fuck is wrong with you?

[Asker]

Thanks. No. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Relaxed girl 😂

[Sasha0426]

That was a really gross question.

[Opinion Owner]

No actually it's a good question

[Sasha0426]

My guy, you are an adult. You should know by now to NEVER ask random women those type of questions. Who raised you to be like this? Who taught you that was an ok thing to do? Disgusting 🤢

[Sasha0426]

It just shows the type of gross man you are. I feel sorry for any women who is related to you.

[Opinion Owner]

Hey Sasha do you work in Circus?

[Sasha0426]

Why do I get this strong feeling you’re going to insult me?