He didn't tell me he has open relationship?

[Anonymous]

I was romantically very interested in him, I tried make a relationship work. Then we started dating... He was telling me he's so busy so he can meet only 1 or 2 times a month (doctor)... He kept me around to fuck and use me

Later I found he had an open relationship. He was probably "allowed" fuck once a month "by main chick"... I got shocked, I got played. Extremely hurt. I felt terrible. Did she know about me? Did they talk about me? Did think how dumb I am?

I'VE NEVER FELT THIS TERRIBLE

My feelings and self esttem hurt a lot. I feel almost destroyed. Any advice to heal from this?

[Guy13]

Sorry to hear about this. You should go sit with a counselor and work through this.

[Guy13]

Was this really a problem for you or does it fit into a design that you can work with?

[Asker]

what do yiu mean? I couldn't get it

[Guy13]

Was the open a deal breaker?

[Asker]

Yessss it is lol

[Guy13]

Alright later 👋 to that guy?

[Asker]

Lol I ghosted him and never talked him again. No explanation needed

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry to hear you went through this. The best thing I can suggest is to let time do it’s thing. What you’re going through is a deep level of hurt that will take some time to heal from, but eventually you’ll get through it. Find ways to vent, whether it’s therapy, with friends, family, or even creative outlets like writing or painting. When you’re hurting, allow yourself to have that moment of grief as long as you pick yourself up after and keep going forward. Don’t even think about if she knew, what they talked about, etc etc, because it’s irrelevant to making you feel any better or move on. If anything it makes it harder because you are imagining worst case scenarios.

[Anonymous]

Sorry to hear that happened to you. But focus on yourself and try to learn from this experience.