How and where to look for love?

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BoobSlayer · Accepted Answer

Finding love can be a challenging and unpredictable process. However, there are many ways to increase your chances of finding a compatible partner. Here are a few suggestions:

Get out and socialize: Attend social events, join clubs or groups that interest you, and volunteer for causes you care about. This will give you the opportunity to meet new people who share similar interests.
Work on yourself: Building a positive self-image and self-esteem can make you more attractive to potential partners and lead you to like-minded people.
Be open-minded: Don't limit yourself to a specific type of person or relationship. Be open to different types of people and different types of relationships.
Be patient: Finding love can take time, and it's important to be patient and not rush into anything.
Be honest and authentic: When you are being honest and authentic, you are more likely to attract people who are genuinely interested in who you are.
Look for love in unexpected places: Love can come from unexpected places, so don't limit yourself to traditional dating venues.

It's also important to remember that love is not the only thing that makes you happy, other aspects of your life such as career, friends and family, and personal development are also important.

NostalgiaSenpi · Accepted Answer

That depends on the individual. You can be like me and look for fifteen years, get rejected in all sorts of ways and in various locations, such as dating sites, bars, libraries, school, college, gym, etc and give up. You could find someone anywhere. I know people that met their current SO on dating sites, special occasions such as a friend's New Years Eve party and various other locals. The possibilities are endless. They are so varied that to make one definite place to meet someone is impossible. Good luck. I gave up at the age of twenty eight and haven't looked back.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I learned from my cousin that you don't look for love - you build yourself and your life and you let guys look for you when your status is high enough. Like doctors don't need dating sites but cashiers might need to go through hundreds of profiles each year.

menina · Accepted Answer

You can go to parties, attend to events that sound interesting to you. You can join a group with people who share the same hobbies and/or interests as you. I've heard about couples who met at the gym. Or you can met someone through your friends.

Guy13 · Answer

Whatever City you are in look-up What's Up and City name.

Weapon77 · Answer

Avoid dating apps and sites unless you are just super curious because they almost never work. You'd literally have more success walking up to 10-20 real women, especially if you know them a little first, than you would swiping dozens of profiles on dating apps. Unless you are a specimen of a man, then it won't matter. But I figure you wouldn't aks this question if that were the case

jshm2 · Answer

In yourself.

Not saying you go fuck yourself. But that you need to love yourself and look the part in order to attract the partner.

If you don't look like you care about yourself, then fat chance you're going to care about others.

SphynxUK · Answer

The supermarket lol.  Gosh, I see some nice people sometimes, and often there is reciprocation. Sadly, I don’t approach, because I work there!

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Stop trying and don't expect it to happen... And hen Bam... A really interesting person will just show up... That seems to work with most people...

slatyb · Answer

After divorcing, I looked online. That worked well for me.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

It comes to you apparently. But I’ve tried to make myself more available to it. Subscribe to my profile for every day rants and cries 😂😂

MountAverage · Answer

That's the thing, if you try to look for it, you usually won't find it. Just be open for it to happen.

Twalli · Answer

Places you enjoy being, then you'll find people who enjoy the same things.

driven159 · Answer

You don't look for it. It finds you by just luck.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

"Love" was created by Madison Avenue to sell panty hose. Compatibility is more realistic.

Anonymous · Answer

Well it’s not like it’s a Lebanese dish. It’s something that comes around. Forced is never good.

oseveno · Answer

You can try dating apps

dustybiker · Answer

You stumble across the best.

exitseven · Answer

You won't find it in a bar.

aaron210419 · Answer

I don't even know anymore

Iron_Man · Answer

Church or Christian mingles

TheMoreMiffed · Answer

I'm looking here

TheAfrikan · Answer

Through the hobbies you live.

Anonymous · Answer

Our first teacher is our own heart

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