Should I just block this guy?

[Candielovexx]

I asked this guy if I could come over. And his reply was

“Hey man, I’ve been really busy and I have a lot on my plate right now. But I’ll let you know when it’s good to come over”

I’ve been talking to other men on dating apps.

[elew4too]

Do you want to have sex with him? If so, I’d be like, “okay, I guess I’ll find someone else for sexy times. I was hoping you’d be the guy. . . but never mind 🙂” or something along those lines. Implicitly threaten to shut the door to your vagina forever and see how quickly he shapes up. If he doesn’t, don’t waste your time

[Candielovexx]

Yeah, I thought about saying something like that. But no I’m not going to say that because he might be busy.

[elew4too]

Forget about being considerate about his time. He hasn’t been considerate with yours

[Avicenna]

No need to block him. Just focus on other guys.

[Candielovexx]

Why shouldn’t I block him?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Because life is keeping him occupied for a few days, you'd block him? Good luck meeting people with that lack of tolerance.

[Candielovexx]

He didn’t say for how long.

[Ms_Facesitter]

So how can we find out how long?

[Candielovexx]

I’m not going to ask him for how long. When he said he would let me know. That’s doing too much.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Fine.

[Anonymous]

yeah block him so he doesn't have to deal with an immature person like you who can't respect a guy's busy schedule

[Candielovexx]

How am I being immature? Because I’m asking why he can’t just be honest?

[Opinion Owner]

how is he not being honest?

[Candielovexx]

I’m saying why can’t he just say that he doesn’t want to see me anymore?

[Opinion Owner]

because maybe he is still legitimately interested... but with you demanding he stop being busy for you... yeah you're gonna ruin this and he will be right to stop seeing you too. just way too needy/clingy on your part.

anyways if you think he isn't being honest just leave him already and find someone else you think will be.

[Candielovexx]

How am I being clingy and needy? I’m not going to contact him anymore period. And I’m turning off message notifications and deleting my message app.

[Opinion Owner]

because you aren't respecting his busy schedule.

[Candielovexx]

I am respecting his busy schedule hence the reason why I’m not contacting him anymore and why I am going to delete my message app.

[Opinion Owner]

ok good. next time try not to make someone elses busy schedule about you.

[Candielovexx]

I’m not making it about me. You obviously don’t understand the question.

[Opinion Owner]

ok then if you say so lol.

[Candielovexx]

I mean do you have experience with this situation?

[Opinion Owner]

here just watch this good dating coach video about how to get great guys. it should help you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CdTTGYHnKXM

[Candielovexx]

Are you saying that the guy I’m talking about isn’t a good guy?

[Opinion Owner]

no just i think you have difficulties finding them based on this question. watch the video and listen. these guys know their stuff.

[Candielovexx]

Ok thanks.

[Guy13]

Block him…

[Iron_Man]

Nooe

[Candielovexx]

Why shouldn’t I?

[Iron_Man]

Blocking is cowardly what if guy changes his mind, or what if you got the wrong idea that hurts to block people

[Brando10222]

It's your choice