Should I block this guy?

[Anonymous]

So me and this guy work at the same place and we were seeing each other outside of work for about a month or two. However he’s about to leave soon and move to another state and we decided to be friends. But after that he was still reaching out and then stopped after a week later so I ended up initiating. Fast forward to today I messaged him to and later on in the convo I told him that I wished things would have worked out. He was a bit confused at first so I told him that I was talking about me and him seeing each other. Then he’s going to respond saying “oh yeah”. I just ended the convo right there because I feel like he’s no longer interested and I regret messaging him. What should I do?

[ohsheeT]

First of all don't answer for him don't take one of his words and twist it as if you know what he even meant by saying any thing stop and listen and learn and in any moment if time you don't hear what you want to you cut things off and think it's ok to act as if nothing happen

Now I have a habit of not reading the words in front of me when reading the words in front of me when I'm answering your question I usually take them as a whole and let me tell you I would be confused if I was him too you had his head spinning 10 different ways before he even got a chance to say anything and then you come up with the title should I block this guy why would you want to block the guy he has done nothing wrong you take it from ABC and D all the way to Z before he even gets on A

Things are not working out for the guy where he's at so he's going to move he's still your friend he should have left it like that and let things happen the way they're supposed to happen instead you twist everything around so he's totally confused and then you send him a message get him more confused and then want to block them take a deep breath relax it's not the end of the world if you want a relationship with him you can't control it it takes two to make it happen not one

[Cl5k12]

I don't think so. You can still be friends and talk. You can never have too many friends. It doesn't seem very nice and respectful in my opinion to block someone because they are moving away. Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel someone blocked you?

[Anonymous]

Why block him? Saying this nicely, I don't know what you expected him to respond with. He’s moving away, and you two already decided that because of this you will be friends, so for you to essentially take a step backwards to the fantasizing, it’s just counterproductive and kinda pointless. I think you may be feeling little embarrassed for putting yourself out there like that and him not reciprocating, but I doubt he was doing it in a hurtful way. He’s just trying to be realistic, putting the friendship on your situation and you should start doing the same. Unless you really aren’t interested in being friends then just delete him, but blocking is unnecessary in this case.

[Rosexøxø]

I get you're upset.

In many cases I block, so my heart isn't attached.

He wasn't willing to move for you or say anything to really keep things intact or futuristic.

He took a physical step away, so his heart is not for you.

No "we" was mentioned. No missing. Nothing. Even being friends was the considerable variable.

Maybe he would've liked friends and everyone is saying wtf here at you for jumping, but you both did the same thing in two different ways.

His heart isn't for you, so now your heart isn't for him.

You'll be okay, and yes you should block.

[WhitneySnow]

Don’t block him. Things might work out in the future if he changes his mind and you still like him.

[itsalyssaagain]

Why do you want to block him? I don’t understand that part.


I understand you’re confused about how he feels but why block him?

[TracyF]

Oh my goodness just tell him how you feel! If he doesn't feel the same way it doesn't matter, he's already in a different state. You're not loosing anything from at least keeping it friendly.

[Massageman]

If you block him, then you cut your chances by 100%. Lousy odds, I'd say.

[spartan55]

You ended the conversation because of that? Wtf?

[Christoff92]

Sure. Go for it 😊

[In_Trance]

yeah

[shades777]

Are you nuts?