I met a guy online as friend to practice a language and he is 36 years old (13 years older than me) and he lives in another country. The problem is, he keeps flirting with me even though I told him million times that we're just friends but he ignores me and keeps calling me "his", "babe" and stuff, also he keeps talking about my profile picture way too much and sometimes he asks if this is really me and sometimes he fights with me out of nowhere because he suspects that the girl in the profile pic isn't me. And he keeps mentioning that I'm the one who should travel to him. Also he is so obsessed with looks and young girls and I feel like he is playing my feeling. So what do you guys think?
Dang girl, this dude sounds like maaaad trouble. All those red flags would have me pullin' out my phone to block him so fast.
Ignoring you when you say you just wanna be friends? Big nope. Calling you pet names even though you told him not to? Double nope. Fighting just cause you won't send more pics? MEGA nope.
Seems like he just wants arm candy to show off and doesn't care how you actually feel. Getting controlling vibes too - no way will he respect your boundaries if you meet up!
Definitely protect yourself and block his ass. Guys like that don't listen till they face real consequences. Watch, he'll still try messaging you from other accounts - screen shot everything in case you need evidence in future.
Trust me sis, there's PLENTY better dudes out there who'll actually respect you. Don't waste another second on someone who makes you feel gross! You got this girl. Stay safe!
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Do you need help telling you what you should do? Are you incapable of making up your own mind, even on simple things like that?
Please block him and don’t look back he sounds like a manipulative creep that doesn’t respect your boundaries.
Stay safe!
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Sounds like a passport bro, block his ass
Block him immediately.
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