How to get her to open up again?

So I've been talking to this streamer, im a streamer to, after about a week she told me she had a crush on me, i liked her too so we've been talking everyday since, no issues at all, we are only a month in so I've still been casually flirting just in case things dont work out, i normally do this until things get serious with someone, well apparently she saw a comment i made on someones picture , i told her me and her were friends, and she pulled a comment from a few months before and said good friends, i tried to defend myself but she just went silent, i waited a day and apologized and she thanked me but said she wasn't sure when she'd be ready to talk, so i said it was cool waited 3 days and tried again, we talked alittle and she said she was having doubts bc of distance and what not and i tried to console her but she said again she wasn't sure when she'd be ready to talk again but this time added that she wasn't she what she wanted anymore, i said some cute stuff for a couple days to no avail, waited a day and then sent her a text telling her i just wanted us to be on the same page i didn't wanna lose her to fear and doubt and she didn't say anything, its been 9 days since the initial fight, i dunno what to do here, part of me thinks its a bs excuse so she can ditch me and talk to other dudes while she has me on the back burner and part of me thinks she's just hurt and doesn't know how to properly commnunicate, in any case i dunno if i should disappear for a few more days, keep hammering in that i want her, and whether or not i should try hanging out in her stream, i haven't gone in since the initial fight, if it wasn't obvious this is a long distance thing which im normally against, but the chemistry has been unreal...

How to get her to open up again?
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