No contact from partner with trauma and not sure what to do?

[Rocknerd2]

So me and my partner have had a rough few months due to her being triggered. We slowed our relationship down due to her needing space and time. Basically we've gone from texting and talking each day to text every few days. We see each other maybe once a week or once every two weeks. We were long distance before so we would only see each other once a month.

She has been really struggling and has recently gotten back into therapy. At one point she said she knew how long of a battle this would be working on her cptsd and wasn't sure she could do it while in a relationship. She followed it up by saying I was amazing and didn't want to lose.

Just recently I left for a work trip and we said we loved each other and I haven't heard from her in two weeks. I texted twice during my trip and nothing. I don't know what to do or say.

[Guy13]

That’s difficult. Are you pick up the pieces friend or or pick-up pieces boyfriend. There’s a huge difference. Where’s the stability factor for her. Is she really looking for a Bestie or a Husband.

I would need to know, sense, and feel that if me.

[Rocknerd2]

I want to be a pick up pieces boyfriend

[Guy13]

I would put this Situationship on the back burner as much as possible. I would have something positive and visual working with a woman. And then, this situationship will change. Your successes bring with it pressure for this dynamic that are favorable for your intent.