I'm seeing a guy who is 16 years younger than me. We are steamy together. No complaints. He, however, has said he sometimes doesn't know what "catagory" I belong in because of my age, and place in life, and "HOW I AM". I asked what he meant, and he said I was nurturing and caring. I felt he meant "Maternal". I know I have these qualities. I was a teacher for many years. Do I try to change?
Is being 'caring, maternal, nurturing" bad or unattractive? My younger guy is confused about how he feels about me because of these traits. Change?
