Seems like so many men are attractive and put together meanwhile I’m ugly and have no style?

[Anonymous]

Everywhere I go it’s seems like everyone’s just so attractive and I’m just this ugly mess that gets picked on and is unlovable. Last time women showed any interest in me was back in Highschool and even then it was few and far in between. But now 11yrs later I have never experienced a women being interested in me, look at me, flirt with me. They just stay away, or make fun of me and insult me. Everyone’s moved on in life and are enjoying it and I’m just struggling and everyday seems like hell.

[Changiis07]

Then start feeling attractive and put together and you will attract someone to you so go shopping for some new clothes/outfit look at men magazines and what women like and start having the confidence and that is attractive enough. Also if you smell good some good cologne like chrome cologne smells amazing

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Pics or I don’t believe you lol.

But in all seriousness, work on your confidence. People believe whatever you testify about yourself. If you say that you are ugly and unloveable, people will treat you as if you are. But if you say that you are worthy of love and companionship, others will think it of you too.

[Asker]

Follow back and I’ll send u a pic

[Guy13]

Develop a successful personal, gym, wardrobe, and find a pleasing personality if you do not have one. Whiny and self-pity is not pleasing.

[Anemone978]

Get some counseling, try to look more appealing.. and if that don't work just stop caring completely and you will feel better.

[Asker]

I think I care only cause I’m a virgin once I try sex and see how it’s nothing special I think I will stop caring

[Anemone978]

What if you like sex more then you thought? Or is it you just you want to get rid of your virginity? If that is all it is at least try to loose it to a girl you like...

[Asker]

Don’t care for losing it just want to experience life like most others do

[Anonymous]

So what’s the question here? Sounds like a rant.

[Asker]

It was way to be perceptive

[Opinion Owner]

So like you’re just venting?

[Asker]

I suppose

[Opinion Owner]

Well that helps a bit but not really. You’ve got things to work on and I hope you do.

[Asker]

I don’t even think I’m that terrible just I don't know when people look at me I don’t command respect or affection. Just sorta exist to be walked on