Do I Think That Most Men Are Unattractive Because I’m A Teen Girl? Or Will I Always Think Like This? Or Is It Because Of Where I Am?

[Americanteengirl]

Most of the men I see outside are unattractive, I don’t like a whole bunch of facial hair and the hairline receding and the balding is just not it.

It’s because you’re a teen girl

No you will always think most men are unattractive

No you are just in a place where there are a lot of unattractive men

Actually most men are unattractive

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+1 y

Okay I’m older now and it still hasn’t changed

[Graydon]

Honestly, did you think teen guys were attractive back when you were like 8 and going through the sill 8yo crushes/relationships in early elementary? As a teen girl right now, do you think young 8yo boys are attractive? Same deal here, I am almost certain that just mentally on the inside, most people just prefer to be with someone about their age as that seems right? Me for instance as a teen boy, hell no do I think 25, 30yo woman are attractive, I’d much rather be with someone my own age so same deal with you. When your much older, trust me you’d rather be with someone your age then too. Your mind will just mentally mature itself and you’ll be very happy with the guy.
For instance, remember the Billy Madison quote (a very popular Adam Sandler comedy from the 90s) “You see Earnie, Grownups like to go out with other grownups) when Billy was trying to ease drop on Mrs Vaughn’s Conversation with Earnie about weather she’ll ever go out with someone from class (as she taught 3rd graders). Well same deal here, almost everyone just mentally feels it is right to go out with someone their own age.

[Americanteengirl]

Yeah I did. Actually I paid attention to a lot of celebs. But even when I’m older I won’t want to date someone unattractive. And actually no it’s not the same, a lot of teen guys go after older women and literally sleep with em. You should look up teacher student cases. Most of those women are 30 and over

[Levin]

You should like what you like. And don't be ashamed of it.

I ain't no Harry Styles man, or err, Zayn Malik. And that's fine. I'm sure they get the teen pussy wet. But I don't aspire to be like them. A more mature and distinguished manly dynamic is more interesting to me.

As a guy, my tastes in women have certainly evolved. I look way beyond physicality now. You can be hot, but so many people aren't nice and then, the attraction instantly tanks.

[Anna__M]

It just depends on your standards. If you only find fuck boys attractive then you most likely won’t find the average man attractive. Unless you broaden your perspective on men. I don’t know how young you are but you seem like your a younger teen maybe 13 - 14. When I was around that age I thought I would never be attracted to a certain type of man. And with aging and gaining maturity my perspective has changed and now I find them attractive.

[Americanteengirl]

Who said anything about fuckboys? And no I’m about to be your exact age soon.

[Anna__M]

Lol I just said fuck boys because you reminded me of me when I was younger and immature. I wouldn’t settle for anything less then male models 😂. But with time I got real and started seeing the beauty of the average man.

[Americanteengirl]

No not gonna settle for an average looking guy sorry not lame

[Anna__M]

You see that’s your problem. You are just like me when I was young and dumb. You want above average aka instagram boys. and you also think that an average man is considered settling. When average man just means the male equivalent of you the average everyday girl next door. Also you need to understand that if you don’t look like Elsa host or Gigi hadid you most likely won’t end up with the supper hot model boyfriend your looking for.

[Americanteengirl]

No we aren’t the same I’m not average looking so I don’t need to settle

[Anna__M]

Well if you say so. But I’m just going to leave you with this. Learn what league your in in terms of beauty and stay in it. If you believe you are above average then go for above average men of any type of man for that matter since your so beautiful. But just know if you are not above average it would be best if you lowered your standards to something a little more realistic when it comes to your dating pool.

[VIVANT]

I think the younger we are the uglier oeople look

But still lost people are not attractive physically. It’s the personality and charm that makes the body more appealing

Most people are just funny looking and then their hair falls out and they gain weight 🤷‍♀️

People do best when they can fall for the person bc skin is kinda gross.

[DianaWest]

no, there are very few attractive people where i live. hate to break it to you, but most people are average or ordinary looking, not gorgeous or very attractive. even most of the celebs (besides angelina jolie) aren't all that.

[VIVANT]

She’s not even all that not without make up

[wingattebaby16]

the pic of the guy you put up is NOT handsome.. looks self conceited and a total full of himself kind of guy.

Not the kind of man I would date... ever...

this is handsome to me.. he is my man! and I love him so much.. and he is lot older than me, but he is young at heart

[Americanteengirl]

No duh he’s not attractive and the guy you put up isn’t to me either, he looks 40 something smh.

[wingattebaby16]

he is mid 30's in this pic...

[Americanteengirl]

He was in his 30s? 💀 Oh yea men go gray kinda early, so I’m assuming he has hair loss too now correct?

[wingattebaby16]

yeah, he is thinning on top, but I still love him...

he reminded me this was taken when he was 39yo... he is 46yo now... I like my men older, richer (he owns his house free and clear, and a summer cabin on the lake), he runs about 5 miles a day and he does not have a beer belly like most men his age.

He said having such a loving, sexy woman in his life keeps him young.. and I do a lot of stuff to keep him young...

older men are not for every one, and that's okay.

[Americanteengirl]

Not surprised.

[AimeeEllen]

It's where we're young, when I was 16 I thought beards and tattoos were terrible but know (nearly 18) I'm lowkey into them 😂 your preferences will change as you get older. It's nothing to worry about :)

[Americanteengirl]

No none of what I named will change, beards are fine but I don’t like big ones.

[AimeeEllen]

I don't know why it replaced an eight with heart eyes but OK 😂, no that's OK we all have our preferences I was just saying that they tend to change as we get older. That dosent mean they will but they might. Either way though it's nothing to worry about :)

[Americanteengirl]

Are you in college or hs?

[AimeeEllen]

I'm from England so I'm in sixth form but I guess that would be college

[Americanteengirl]

Are a lot of college guys hot?

[AimeeEllen]

I'd say like 25% of the population are pretty good looking but it just depends on what you like

[Americanteengirl]

💀💀💀

[AimeeEllen]

😂 😂 It'll be OK

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Maybe your opinion will change, maybe not.
You'll have to live and see.

[Americanteengirl]

I’m going to see what other females think too

[UnknownGagsUser]

It will change when you getting older. I once used to think men with facial hair look ugly and unattractive.

Now I find them hot , see lol

[Americanteengirl]

I didn’t say I didn’t like facial hair.

[UnknownGagsUser]

I was just giving an example about me

[Americanteengirl]

Ok we will see

[yeeeeeeeet]

You'll eventually see more men as attractive. Your preferences will get broader when you get older.

[Americanteengirl]

We’ll see about that, the stuff I named though won’t change

[yeeeeeeeet]

Most of the time people become more accepting of faults once they realize how hard it is to find people that have none.

[Americanteengirl]

All the guys I dated had none of the faults I named. Besides many guys don’t have those “faults” I named

[yeeeeeeeet]

Yes and thats because you are young. When you are older finding people that are single with little to no facial hair and a non receding hairline will be more and more difficult.

[Americanteengirl]

Yeah I definitely don’t find older men attractive

[Americanteengirl]

And no facial hair is fine I just don’t like too much

[Sweatyotterr]

Most guys are probably ugly

[Americanteengirl]

I want to see what other females think I will ask that question later

[Sweatyotterr]

K you make it so only girls can answer

[Sweatyotterr]

Can.

[AkshiJanjua]

what about guys ur age

[Americanteengirl]

A lot of them are cute

[AkshiJanjua]

people like their own age group

[Americanteengirl]

A lot of older women smash young guys

[AkshiJanjua]

lol but everyone likes young

[Americanteengirl]

No a lot of guys and girls want older too

[AkshiJanjua]

yeah... they have issues i mean who likes old people 😕 oldest i like maybe 30