If a lot of unattractive guys find me attractive does that mean I’m unattractive?

[Anonymous]

I swear the only guys that hit on me or catcall me are the ones without a job, possibly homeless men on the street… now that I think about it, I think over the past few years the only guys who have approached me have been these types of men on the street. I don’t think I’ve ever been properly approached now that I think about it

I almost never get approached or hit on by men with actual jobs, so does that mean I’m unattractive?

[inhua]

this is the mistake your making. believing that the quality of the person who finds you attractive determines your attractiveness. attractiveness is based on quantity so if a lot of men regardless of how attractive they are, find you attractive, then yes you are (due to popular opinion) attractive.

out of a population of 10 guys, 9 are 1/10 in "objective" attractiveness and 1 is a 10/10 in "objective" attractiveness and all the 1/10 men think you're attractive and the 10/10 doesn't then you are 9/10 attractive.

maybe one of the reasons why these homeless men are approaching you is because A) they find you attractive and B) they have nothing left to lose. if you call the cops and send them jail, you're only doing them a favor as they get 3 square meals a day and free gym whereas being homeless won't give them that.

[Guy13]

Perhaps, you have not placed yourself in a high density middle upper class setting to really find out the variety of individuals who are attracted to you. One's Value is not measured by one's Beauty and in cosmetic things only.

[RiseofArtemis]

Those with jobs have stuff to do and don't run after women. Or they are married already. If you are a certain age, chances are you will never find a partner. Find a partner early and settle. Or you will become just like a lot of other women, single, childless with a cat and boxed wine.

[Asker]

Haha nope not settling but good luck convincing girls to settle with you

[VikingWarLord]

If you're in America, dudes are afraid of getting the police called for stalking.

It's much more relaxed in foreign countries, women not only love guys approaching, they do the approaching too. American women are too stuck up and dudes don't wanna deal with that shiit

[Asker]

Funny you say that because the ones that women are likely to consider stalkers are the ones that actually do look and behave like a stalker. If a clean decently dressed man approached, no one would consider him stalker.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

The only unattractive thing I see about you is your personality. That's probably the reason only "unattractive" people approach you.

[Asker]

I’m not rude to any of them. Im just describing the men that approach me and would never say treat them differently just because I think they’re unattractive

[YourFavoriteFriend]

"I’m not rude to any of them"

Meanwhile: "They are poor so they are unattractive"

That's literally the definition of been rude and offensive. OMG the delusion...

[JPresidente]

Let me put it this way, guys of all types, homeless, working, nerds, rednecks etc. would not waste there time talking to an unattractive woman.

[jayhams]

Do you think just because someone is unattractive they can't recognize an attractive person?

[nawtee_me]

Well that pink Silhouette doesn’t look very inviting…. PM me a pic of you….

[boggboss]

Not even sure how u get that link but sure thing

[chicosuave]

yes super ugly. problably you scare them away

[FilmGuy93]

It might mean that, but not necessarily.

[In_Trance]

smh... no. it means you're attractive.

[disgustingweebtrash]

Yeah you're ugly

[Joker_]

yeah lol