Girls, are most men unattractive?

[Unit1]

And if so, what makes them all so unattractive?

When I read the responses (from other questions) I see that pretty much nothing applies to me and I keep not getting any girls.

yes. most men are unattractive

kinda. half of men are unattractive

no. most men are not unattractive

most men are attractive

other

[lightbulb27]

A lot of them. but it's not physical, it's emotional unnatractiveness.

There's plenty of evidence of "ugly" guys getting not only girls but very attractive girls. I'm not saying it's their preference, they want the best they can get, but an ugly guy will win the girl if the rest of the room is emotionally dunce. You must delve into the emotional realm to understand girls... it's what they are all about. Failure to do so, you'll think like a dude... logically, and you'll be endlessly baffled by their behavior.

[Unit1]

I heard this one many times and i trust that this this is carrying some truth. Some girls told me i am not their type, so there is that.

[lightbulb27]

that can be true... maybe 2% of the women I have attraction to, they aren't going to be drawn to every guy. But it can be an excuse as well because "they don't feel it". When you are emotionally your best, socially feel good, charismatic, they'll start to feel you are their 'type'.
The connection woman to man is emotional... and sub conscious connection. That's hard to change, but you can work on your emotional intelligence. Put your efforts there, study, read, practice, get experience... in emotion with humans, animals. development...

[Anonymous]

As a man i can confirm if you compare men & women, women do finds more men unattractive than men finds women unattractive, its because

1) Men generally have low physical values, & they are judge by abilities.

2) Men do horrific crimes than women,

3) All women wants the best of best, so they don't attracted to every other men so easily.

4) It's possible that toxic feminism can be a cause for women showing less interest to men.

5) Low Social Status:- Women generally like men who have high social status & more popular, while only 1% men are like that.

6) People have low sex drive tends to find opposite sex less attractive.

Those 6 cause are the valided cause why women finds men unattractive more.
Those 5 reason is the possible cause for hating men,

[Spongebobssocks]

Do you mean men my age range? Cause if you include all ages then yes most men are unattractive. But within my age range their is a potential to it thats not exist yet.

[Unit1]

Oldness and fat belly are not attractive. That is more than understandable.
I'm neither old not fat.

[Spongebobssocks]

Well then its problaby how you act or what you say. What do you say when you approach a woman?

[Unit1]

Nothing at all.
And this is my problem.
When I want to date them I think stopping them would be more troubling to them than being just a random encounter and that's it.

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay but if you never approach women how are you gonna find your partner?

[Unit1]

I won't. I will die loveless and single.

[Unit1]

Unless I relocate to Thailand. I think it will be much easier there. Women there at least pretend to love men.

[Spongebobssocks]

If thats your mindset and you aren't willing to risk being rejected then yes

[Spongebobssocks]

People get married in west too. You just gotta put yourself out there

[Unit1]

And I can't kick my own ass to do just that. Too scared or something. Like the opposite sex can get quite nasty and hostile. Grrr! These nasty bitches. It turned them immediately from 6.5/10 to a 1/10.

[Spongebobssocks]

There is your problem. You can't let fear stop you

[Unit1]

Yeah. Maybe if they are being nasty bitches I can turn into their second worst nightmare to make a point. That'll show 'em.

[Spongebobssocks]

Or if a woman is rude to you when you ask her out. Maybe see it as a win for not waisting your time :)

[Unit1]

On a side-thought. I remember, that women are just as socially inept as men are, so there's that.

[Spongebobssocks]

:)...

[Unit1]

Right. That's my point with their social ineptitude.

[Spongebobssocks]

😂 go ger her Unit1

[Unit1]

Right. We have to do everything. 😬

[Spongebobssocks]

Yes. Write me when you've asked a woman out

[lightbulb27]

That "girl's aren't interested in me" is a root of a lot of evil.
Edison had to try a lot of times to get the light bulb right. It's hard work... ditto for quite a few guys. Girls have 100,000 years of emotionally awful experiences programmed into their genome. They are going to filter out guys and rather choose none than one that cannot handle them, or bump off another woman that has a worthy one.
That's reality. Your job is to decode the female mind and learn the role of the man. There's books written on this.
Get the heart right first though, or the motive will be wicked, and I cannot support that.
An approach to approaching women, would be to find some to mingle with with no interest in dating, and talk to them about dating. Find female friends in small groups.. start there. Via activities.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thank you for MHO!

Did you ask anyone out?👀

[DizzyDesii]

Nah i find a good 70% attractive physically. I find a good 20% attractive mentally/emotionally

[CubsterShura]

Physically, no. Behaviorally, yes. It's a miracle that I'm still heterosexual.

[Unit1]

What they do? Being racist and rude? Rushing to get sex? Demean women?

[CubsterShura]

Yeah those are some examples

[Unit1]

Anything else?
Is me saying "i am broke" a turn off?

[CubsterShura]

Not necessarily, but if that's the reason to be a cheapskate with your partner on a consistent basis, then yes

[Unit1]

No money no honey.

[AlphaGhost]

Okay let's have a discussion,
I have been hearing you say "I am broke" for last 3-4 years and now I would like to ask, what have you done to remedy the situation or turn things around?
I am not tryna to attack you or do anything here but once/twice can be coincidence but consistently falling over the years have to be either a character flaw or you generally make poor life choices. If I remember correctly, you are a software developer and I have a lot of friends who belong to the same field and they are making big bucks, while working from home.
Secondly, I won't act like other guys here and gave you fake ego boost bro... if women are avoiding you like a STD, you may have numerous character flaws or red flags, what I am trying to say here is think from their prospective and ask your female colleagues for recommendation. One red flag I can point out right now is you listen to too much "RedPill" propaganda, every man should know about divorce statistics and absence of man rights in USA but you have to remember, these are USA statistics. They don't apply to the whole world and woman in your area will behave completely different from one's here in USA or have different dating expectation or culture, even within USA certain nationalities behave completely different. I was in relationship with Korean chick in Medical college (who was born and raised in USA) and her (and her friends) behaviour and ethics were completely opposite to snow bunnies. Contrary to popular belief, I was shocked to find out that Koreans are like cultural extremist, and we broke up due to this reason (her family was asking about marriage and future planning 6 months into relationship).
So work on yourself brother...

[AlphaGhost]

Can you elaborate on your first comment, I am curious what could have turned you into so against man?

[Unit1]

@AlphaGhost Very long story short: Born penniless, making low money, same old story. Those traditional 40h wagecuck contracts were not meant to sustain modern life. I kept preaching about having 2 jobs or being an independent contractor.

So I kept looking and looking to get a grip on my financial situation. I looked for years and everywhere (online and offline) and 98% of times I was met with "money isn't everything" and "money is not important" and all that. And I kept pushing to find what I am after.

Only this year I found out about day trading and swing trading. Now I have my skepticism whether this is real but the other traders asked themselves the same question back in their day. That is where my focus now is at. Investing and trading. If it's real, it may be just my ticket out of my poverty and misery.

[Unit1]

It's not like I spend my money on Fortnite skins. I still go days without having 3 square meals and sleeping on the floor on a mattress.
IT being a highly paid field is propaganda. Only a small fraction of them make the big bucks.

[AlphaGhost]

Bro I would have believed you (IT field don't pays good) if it was a one guy eating good but there are more than 5 of them, they have not even immigrated out of my home country. They are doing work for overseas companies from there and then taking advantage of currency conversion ratio to get crazy rich.
All I know is that they work for company known as "System" and it's the biggest country in my country... all of us graduated in 2021 (born in 1998) from uni and we have managed to get here due to hard work and determination to fight to the bitter end. I wouldn't come here and tell you, it was so easy for me.
Nope I did have un-fair advantage of intelligence over other guys but I worked my ass off, before my exams in college. I have studied 18 hours/day for 3 months straight to get better grades and in a foreign country, majority of people don't give a damnn about your grades... nobody told me to work hard but I told myself, stay loyal to yourself and continue the grind.

[AlphaGhost]

So brother intelligence matters but "HARD WORK" always pays off, don't get discouraged "GOD is GOD of everybody", HE will bless you like, just like us and you will reap benefits of your hard-work. The only advice I will you is there is no-shortcut of making legal money... the only way forward is through it, so stop focusing on these "fake-ass" schemes and focus on your career.
As for dating, honey attracts flies and money attracts woman but the only way of keeping her around is loyalty and sincerity, you have to put in a lot of effort and work in relationship to make it work. When I first have intrusive thoughts about my fiancé... I was a player (I use to believe its something to brag about, its not and I didn't sleep with anybody/Muslim country= no sex) and She was extremely cunning fox, who grew up with me and knew me inside and out. I was trying my luck with her to brag to my friends "look what I conquered" and She was like, you want to play come-one let me teach you a lesson (we are 16).
From there to here, where I can trust her with my life took a-lot of hard-work and problem solving (fights)... I see plenty of guys like you, going around looking for so called "PERFECT" girlfriend, let me enlighten you. It doesn't exist bro, everybody has pros and cons... you gota find with no major character flaws and work with it.
Now again... I am not telling you to sleep with SATAN and say I can fix her... NO be careful in initial selection.

by the way, I asked them this is the company they work in...
https://www.systemsltd.com/

[Unit1]

@AlphaGhost

Bro, I'm an infidel.

Working hard brought me... well, let's just say double the pay of McDonalds and none of the physical labor of it. OK, it is definitely an upgrade compared to that but I'm not there, where "it is promised" to bring me (And I'm still not cuddling any girls).
So I figure I'll make it happen myself in another way.

I am currently an employee restricted to 40h by labor law. I used to be an independent contractor + I had a second part-time job just shortly before the war in Ukraine begun and my contractor thingy ended very shortly after it started and so did my part-time job too.

Now. I owe my current employer big time. He helped me a lot getting back to Germany and escape the shithole, that my parents brought me into. So it's not like I can just change jobs like that (at least not yet). Where's the loyalty and the returned favor?

This is where all my resources were focused on. My time, energy, money, everything I did by myself only.
Always on the lookout to get my life in better grip. Always it seems that it is not gonna get good enough for me. Wonder if girls would turn a blind eye on that "in the same of love". Nah, scratch that. That's insecurity speaking. We don't need that.

[Anonymous]

Women typically find about 90% of men unattractive. And it's pointless to ask what makes them unattractive. Because while while there are a dozen universal things that make guys unattractive there literally a million varying things from woman to woman that makes a guy unattractive.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Are you comparing them to Henry Cavill? Then yes most men are unattractive.

[alice55]

If we count all age range then yes