Is a week and a half a long time to wait for a date?

[Anonymous]

I matched with a guy on tinder 3 days ago, we swapped numbers on the same day and are planning a date.

I work full time and study part time, therefore I have to plan my time accordingly.

Unfortunately I have plans this weekend so can't go on a date, but I told him that I could next weekend and he told me that it's a long time to wait? Is it?

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To add further context I'm 24f and he's 41m

[Anonymous]

Doesn’t really matter if you can’t do anything about it. Your schedule right now just is what it is. If he can’t wait it out then oh well, it’s been 3 days you’ll find someone else.

[Anonymous]

You can't expect much from any man you meet on tinder.

[Ligerzzero]

Nope, you should try asking that question to guys that have been eating years for a date

[Wise4myage]

No, not really. And if he's that impatient then the hell with him.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes and no

[BarryLiverstone]

Could you meet him for 30 min for coffee? Or at a park for a walk?

[Asker]

He lives 40 minutes away and I think he's wanting to go for a meal or drinks. He's been asking what time I usually go to bed on a night and how long I usually spend on dates. I told him that it depends on how well the date is going.

[BarryLiverstone]

What do you want? Are you interested in meeting him to go on dates or what are your goals? You could meet him at a restaurant 20 min away and even with your schedule spend 45 min eating and talking.

[Iron_Man]

No it’s not