I have autism and need help understanding what his doing and why?

[Anonymous]

So this guy and I were talking for 2 weeks. He then ghosted me after 3 weeks from my asking to hang out. Then reached out after the 3 weeks wanting to hang out. I politely declined. Then 2 months later his hanging around my work. I text him, we meet up. Then he ghosted me for another 3 weeks. Hanging around my work again. I text him, then he has ghosted me again.

What is going on?

[Truthatanycost]

All you need is strict boundaries. He ghosted you... then later you met up. After being ghosted that should have been it. No meets or contact again regardless. It doesn't matter why people do things. All you can control is what you do in response to those things. Thus you communicated a lack of self respect and poor boundaries by allowing him access to your time and presence after he'd ghosted you.

[Chad345]

Please, forget this guy. He's treating you very badly.

[Asker]

Explain... I'm so confused

[Chad345]

Because if he liked you he wouldn't ghost you. It's inconsiderate and doesn't show a concern for your feelings. I'm autistic too and the same thing happened to me.

[WhitneySnow]

No clue but he’s not serious about you. Block him and move on. Or don’t block him. Just ghost him back.

[Asker]

You think? Why is he doing this?

[WhitneySnow]

I have no clue but when a guy ghosts you like this it means deep down he’s not interested

[TrillXHippy]

He’s just wasting your time