Guys what turned you off when you approached someone you liked?

[emmaa1]

ever got so much interest in someone but once you had a conversation everything went downhill?

[Gloree]

happens to me a lot. you see a guy and say 'wow he's hot.' and when you get to meet him and he opens his mouth, you're shocked. some have poor hygiene and just the odour coming from their mouth is enough to send you running away.

Some girls who you'll like to be friends with are thesame. I've met very vain and materialistic girls who all they talk about is men and the numbers they are dating and they save the guys' names with different things depending on who the person really is to them such as "the real boyfriend." "Spender" "Good in the sack" I run away from such women.

people are like packages. you never know what's really inside until you open.

[emmaa1]

oh poor hygiene is the worst of turns off. and those girls happen to be all around lately! so shallow

[Gloree]

exactly. I used to like a guy when I was 19 but I was turned if when he came to visit me and my sister in our off campus home cause the moment he removed his shoe so he could enter the house his shoe smelled badly

[emmaa1]

nothing to do but ghost themm

[Gloree]

exactly

[Anonymous]

He fake his interest just because he feels bad if he makes it look obvious

[emmaa1]

no guts no glory, turn offf

[Caliguy88]

Yeah for sure. Usually when they are self centered or just can’t keep a convo flowing. For example…. You’re getting to know someone and you ask some questions to get things going and they answer them and the convo just doesn’t flow well back and forth. Or they are just rude about people…. Talking poorly about people.

[serious]

I never approached a woman because I have never liked a woman. I won't ever approach a woman either, it does not matter even if she is gorgeous in the exact same way that is in my mind.

[emmaa1]

why not

[serious]

@emmaa1

Well, the reason is simple. I have always been single and my purpose of life is to remain single, hence I will never like a woman and since I won't like I won't approach and plus that would like " leading a woman on" and confusing her and this according to me is highly unethical and immoral act and this will really hurt any woman, especially if she is of nice, kind, caring and sweet type.

I never do these things and will never do either. I am always honest and straightforward irrespective of the consequences.

Hence even if the woman is exactly gorgeous in the way I thought, I will only look at her from a distance and then walk away. That is all that will happen.

[serious]

@emmaa1

I think this answers your question.

[emmaa1]

I appreciate your views and principles. what about this purpose of staying single, feel like sharing?

[serious]

@emmaa1

" what about this purpose of staying single, feel like sharing?"

Yes of course. Why not? Seems like you are curious. I will share the reasons on PM though, so send me a PM if you wish to know.

[emmaa1]

it's a follow-up question, doesn't have to be a secret but bless u for it xo enjoy ur day

[serious]

@emmaa1

No, it is not a secret but then certain things are better to be told in PM. Anyways does not matter I am not trying to explain myself. You can think what you want.

Have a nice day yourself.

[emmaa1]

see u explained urself anyway xd so nice, sure share it in pm if you like to :') thnxx

[serious]

@emmaa1

Okay.

[Makeushiver]

Yeah and it's almost always been someone I was interested in because she looked hot. Then I talked with her and I think her IQ was about the same as the ambient room temperature which required a sweater

[emmaa1]

sexy dumb girls really is something, i still find it fun xd

[SnowedIn]

Yeah... either they couldn't actually have a conversation or they were just a bitter pill.

[Keishio]

A hippy girl I got friendly with a while back saw I had an air rifle and berated me about it which was a big turn off

[emmaa1]

I think hippies worth a try xd

[Keishio]

The berating was just the tip of the iceberg, believe me

[emmaa1]

definitely, I wouldn't even look backk

[emmaa1]

but I'd berate back :/

[Keishio]

I'm just not that sort. I let her have her moment and made up my mind whether or not she was worth pursuing. When I was driving her home though she genuinely asked when we'd be seeing eachother again

[emmaa1]

too bold of her to think you would

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes that's happened to me several times I was interested until I have a conversation with them and found out the were airheads

[emmaa1]

have you carried on anyway because they are hot?

[bowenw]

More interested in talking to her girlfriends.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't approach women I don't know.

[emmaa1]

why didn't you ever?

[TheSpaceGnome]

1. Too many misandrists who cry wolf about harrassment when all a guy did was say hi, show interest, and flirt to see if she'd be interested.

2. There aren't any attracive (childless) women at the types of locations where I could tell if I'd be interested in her (arcades, comic shops, video game shops, toy/collectable shops, online lobbies for the games that I play, etc.)

3. On the rare instance where I think I might be interested, women make zero effort to display that they are single, so I ignore them (we need a universal sign for that. Maybe some article of clothing like a wristband, or an I'm single necklace ersomething I dunno).

4. I can't tell if a woman is 14 or 40 by looking at them, so I just ignore them all for my own safety. (I look the same now as I did at 14, and I still will look this way in 4 years, so I expect that being a thing in women too)

[emmaa1]

1. surprisingly is just for women who seek attention like crazy, and the ones who can't handle a situation, unless the guy has seriously crossed the line.

2. my girls and I be at those locations every once in a while and I've met attractive/childless

3. is hilarious but also true, i know how we be really misleading sometimes, but it's not hurting anyone xd

4. it depends, and bless uu

[TheSpaceGnome]

1. It's a lot more common than you might think, enough to deter all but asshole guys who don;t care how they are viewed or what risks they take.

2. I've not been lucky enough to find any.

3. You say it's not hurting anyone, but when there are women who treat nice guys like creepy stalkers, we NEED to know you are single and looking if you want us approaching. Approaching the wrong girl can ruin a guy's entire life, even if he did nothing wrong.

4. At this point people should just have their age on their person somewhere, it's too confusing.

[emmaa1]

I agree with uu

[villainfantasy]

She was a feminist

[emmaa1]

that's common

[Anonymous]

Never happened

[emmaa1]

never got turned off?

[Opinion Owner]

Never approached