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Many guys do this as a way to attract women and get women wondering why they are being ignored. I don't agree with this tactic. I think it's counterproductive. It's playing games and unfriendly at a minimum of negative vibes. At worst it is manipulation, and not a healthy way to start a relationship of any kind at all- and I mean relationship in the most broad sense, which can look different with different people.
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I can only speak for myself, but my past experience makes me assume I am just bring pranked or something, I want to accept but am too concerned with it being another "joke" that I am super hesitant, stacked with being naturally shy and it's a mess
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There could be lots of reasons, here are a few:
1. I'm in a relationship with someone else
2. They are in a relationship with someone else
3. I may like them but doubt I could ever love them
4. We have conflicting politics or religions
5. We are in an environment where relationships are not allowed, i. e.- we work together and one of us supervises the other
There could be multiple reasons
The most obvious is because you realize they don’t like/love you back and you’re mature enough to realize you can’t make someone develop feelings for you
The other big reason would be that you’re not in the right place in life to give the person the relationship they deserve, so you avoid the person because you don’t want to make a big mistake
There are other reasons I’m sure some guys have that maybe could be selfish, but I can’t think of them right now
Because I would assume they are taken if I'm not 100% sure whether they are single and I don't want to invest in someone taken. Another reason is because I don't know whether the interest is mutual, if a woman is nice to me that doesn't mean she's interested. Since I'm not good at reading signs from body language I don't want to invest and later be called a pervert.
I like someone right now I flirted, tried suggesting coffee to talk about similar interests but not an outright date. She’s giving me extremely mixed signals one day she’s flirtatious the next it’s just friends. So now I avoid her.
I think it’s to either avoid getting hurt or to seem not interested to make them possibly make first move.
This question reminded me of my days of shyness. It could be because of the following reasons:
- We're too shy.
- We are afraid of rejection.
- We don't want to set off a negative impression out of awkwardness
I do this if I am finding her too much of a distraction from more important stuff. But also if I discover she has a promiscuous past or present.
I often wonder that as over thinker: then I realise they weren't ignoring me or even ignoring, they were just enjoying their lives the way I have things that come up and sometimes I also just want, my time. And not to shine lol ☀️🌞
I wouldn't, this is definitely more of a woman's tactic from my experience. And it fails miserably every time.
I think one of the main reasons would be due to shyness or possibly being afraid of rejection. So it can feel safer to not act on your feelings for someone.
It's cause some of us are shy. Its not that I'm trying to ignore her it's more I'm terrified to talk to her and look like an awkward idiot.
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