Why is it anytime men have standards women have to do a big song and dance about it?

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Stretch marks are a non-negotiable for me🤮

[TrueConfection]

No one cares what your standards are.

For example:

If you refuse to date anyone who doesn't look like Sydney Sweeney, no one cares. Just don't be surprised to hear that your expectations are so unrealistic that you'll probably die a lonely man.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

They haven’t been unrealistic for any of the 34 women I’ve slept with so…

[TrueConfection]

Congratulations

[Anonymous]

You can have whatever standards you want but you’ll end up alone forever then so don’t whine about that. Most women have or will get stretchmarks, and a lot of men also have them by the way. My exes, my brother, my cousins, friends, dad I’ve seen them all have stretchmarks. From muscle building, puberty, growth spurts or weight gain. And like I said, most women have them already from puberty or pregnancy, or will get them in the future from pregnancy, weight gain, breastfeeding or whatever. So prepare for a lonely life (and make sure you tell your potential partner you’ll dump her when she gets stretchmarks), but if you feel you’re fine with that then its all good. Just shut up about being single because its on you.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

You sound very envious of women who don’t have stretch marks

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because rather than take care of themselves, or pick guys who like what they are, they complain about guys who don't want them, in an attempt to widen their dating pool.

[Anonymous]

Stretch marks are a think with most women depending on how big their asses and tits are, whether they've had kids or their age. Maybe girls aged 14-17 don't have them.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

If you’ve had kids that’s the only way I can let it slide but what standards do you have for your women?

[snowboarder720]

I definitely see similarities with your posts. It’s clear that someone hurt you, obviously a woman. It’s important to build boundaries to protect ourselves from being hurt again.
Though you’re not building boundaries, it sounds like you’re just trying to blame other women due to whatever happened in your past with women and that’s incredibly unhealthy and I recommend you speaking to a therapist who can help you if you wish to build a healthy relationship.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Well this is why women are so complicated because anytime a guy asks a serious question with the intention of learning and understanding female nature “Who hurt you?” It’s a tired cliché that’s actually creating more boundaries

[snowboarder720]

What you’re doing is expecting the rest of the women to deliver you the respect that your previous relationships didn’t give you like they all owe it to you or something.
Yeah damaging relationships can happen to everybody but instead of you healing from all of that you’re holding your wounds like it’s some kind of grudge.
That’s how damaging relationships come by. From unhealthy previous relationships. Whether that be from your family, friends, or romantic relationships. That doesn’t just spawn out of nowhere.

Meanwhile you’re holding it as a grudge to all of your future relationships and expecting the next person to fix you or something.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Whether I’m holding a grudge or not I can’t be better if I don’t learn dating and relationships is a lot like hunting I need to know my prey better to succeed

[PainusNdeeAnus]

In fact a big problem with dating today is that no one makes the effort to try and understand the opposite gender

I just learned last year that how you make a woman feel is what’s most important not your looks, height, income or whatever

[snowboarder720]

At that point you’re not hunting. You’re just chasing a unicorn to fix you and break down all of your barriers like she owes it to you meanwhile you’re degrading all women for your own wounds.

[snowboarder720]

Respect goes both ways. If you can’t learn to respect them on all levels there’s absolutely no reason why they should respect you.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Asking questions is disrespectful? How am I chasing a unicorn by asking women about women?

[Justneedtokno]

I think you’re confusing standards with attraction and physical attributes. Standards is if she is morally the same as you.
And OK you don’t like stretch marks OK don’t get her pregnant ever lol but they are natural.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

No standards can be applied to literally everything

[Justneedtokno]

Meh I guess

[LimitedBenefits101]

Stretch marks= disgusting

Find yourself a clean woman.

[Anonymous]

I don’t mind stretch marks in most places, except on their stomach

[PainusNdeeAnus]

What other standards do you have for your women

[Opinion Owner]

They have to be slim

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Misogynist!

[Opinion Owner]

Well I don’t think I am so I guess you’re joking, I’m not overweight so why should I be with someone that is

[PainusNdeeAnus]

I’m am joking but women who will call you that for wanting a slim woman won’t be

[Opinion Owner]

At least that’s something they can change

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Nope if you don’t like a woman the way she is then you’re the asshole

But you better meet here standards

[PainusNdeeAnus]

I meant her not here

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, it’s crazy how they think

[PainusNdeeAnus]

And I completely agree there’s nothing wrong with a slim guy wanting a slim girl

Especially when women harshly reject fat guys

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah and short guys that can’t change their height

[Chazmatazz269]

Hypocrisy, of course.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Don't most people have stretch marks?

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Nope