Is he shy or playing hard to get or not interested?

[Anonymous]

So this guy and I were talking for 2 weeks had a great date, but then the next day he asked me to have sex with him and i declined because it was too fast and i wasn't comfortable with him. He then ghosted me after 3 weeks from me asking to hang out. Then reached out after the 3 weeks wanting to hang out. I politely declined. Then 2 months later his hanging around my work. I text him, we meet up. Then he ghosted me for another 3 weeks. Hanging around my work again. I text him, then he has ghosted me again.

He has a tbi to his frontal lobe so is very impulsive and has no filter...

His shy

His not interested

His not sure what he wants

[serious]

The indications are very clear. He is not interested in you. He only wanted to get physical and have sex and when you declined he is ignoring you. Simple.

Best not to go for such men.

[Asker]

So his lingering around my workplace because he wants to have sex with me? Even when I declined

[serious]

Of course he does not have any self respect left.

[Vikkrram]

Of course he is only interested in sex. Ma'am you shouldn't enetertain him

[LazerBean]

He's interested in sex, and since you are not giving it to him he is not interested in you. A shy person is not going to ask for sex that fast.

[Asker]

So why is he lingering around my work? I'm so concerned...

[serious]

@LazerBean

Exactly. Very well said.

[TacosRAwesome]

Whatever he feels sounds like he's a waste of mental energy and time.