What reduces someone’s relationship value?

[blissinanarchy1]

So, we’ve all heard that someone’s past doesn’t reduce their value as a person. This can be true, because some of the best people make mistakes. But relationship value is much different, it’s tricky. There can be really good people… that have absolutely no relationship value. To give you an idea what I mean, it could be a great woman, very intelligent and funny, but fucks literally anyone that asks, unprotected. Or it can be a man, who’s great guy, intelligent, funny, caring, but had sex with your female relatives.

OnlyFans and sex work, and promiscuity (men and women) is the number one thing that takes away relationship value.

[inhua]

promiscuity, smoking, alcoholic, drugs, selfishness, unwilling to sacrifice, close-minded and easily offended

[LazerBean]

Promiscuity, unhealthy, poor hygiene, negative personality traits, divorce, illegitimate children, drug history, poor values, bad family, mental illness

[Anonymous]

Insecure people that think relationship value is even a real thing.

[blissinanarchy1]

Gaslighting narcissists accuse people of insecurity for having standards.

[Anonymous]

- Promiscuous past

- Has a children / children

- Smokes

- Abuses drugs or alcohol

- Feminist / personality problems