Boyfriend missed second half of Super Bowl to talk about our relationship. Can we save it?

[Anonymous]

He has been having feelings of breaking up because of long distance (military) and I’ve said that I want to keep working on things because eventually we’re not going to be long distance. We spent the whole second half of the Super Bowl talking. And left without a clear indication of where the relationship stood.

As an avid Chiefs fan, why would he waste time talking and missing the game if he didn’t care?

[Guy13]

He's probably figured out that you got no better sense than to do this during the Super Bowl that there might be some generational issues there.

[Asker]

He could’ve literally said let’s talk about this later

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Talking about the relationship was clearly more important to him than the game. From how the question is written, it sounds like the game was more important to you than the discussion. So I’m not sure at the moment how this relationship is going to survive.

[Asker]

No, the game wasn't important to me at all. But I knew how excited he was to watch it and it just happened he made me upset at halftime and i was like where is this going

[BarryLiverstone]

When did you last see him irl and when will you see him again?

[Asker]

We saw each other the day of the Super Bowl as we were talking. His family was downstairs watching the game.

[MadAndBankrupt]

He found out that you cheated on him

[Pterodon]

Because it’s really bothering him