What should I do if my boyfriend hasn’t talked to me since Sunday, due an argument that we had? Is that a sign it’s over?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been together for 2 years, and almost all the time we got into arguments, I used to be the one breaking the ice. This time, it was completely his fault and apart from a “hope you’re okay” text from him, which I replied, it’s been radio silence since Sunday.

[Anonymous]

If its his fault, and you’re usually always the one who breaks the ice, then leave this one up to him. He probably thinks you’re always gonna run back to him no matter what because he’s used to it. Prove him wrong and show him you’re fine without him, or at least you will be.

[HelpfulWoman]

If your partner can't be mature about an argument and "ignore" you like this, take the fucking hint and find someone better

[Hermitess]

He’s being immature. I can understand sometimes people need quiet time to themselves after they’ve had an argument, but they should inform the other person to just leave them alone for a few days while they calm down. Ghosting someone is never cool.

[Nifrayu]

So you want him to be the one to patch things up this time? That's understandable if he is the one whose mistake created this distance between you two. Maybe you can coax him into doing something to make things up to you with a flat question like "do you still love me?"

[Asker]

I texted him tonight, asking if we could talk. He was colder than ever, short and said we will tomorrow.

[Nifrayu]

Damn. I'm sorry that's he's being like this.
Sorry if these questions upsets you but are you absolutely sure he is at fault and more importantly is he aware that his is?

[Asker]

It was him who picked a fight with me, then when I had enough, made it look like it was my fault and dropped me home.

[Nifrayu]

He doesn't sound emotionally mature at all.

[Fireguy17]

I have no patients for playing games, so I would move on.

He is an adult, so it's time to stop playing games and act like an adult.
If he calls later just inform him that you have moved on and hang up.

[sheikalana]

Doesn't mean it's over. Means he's probably processing what happened and analyzing the relationship.

[Bobbybopeep]

So it’s been 3 days… girl. He’s just giving you time to steam off.


If you really think it’s his fault and want him to break the ice then you have to wait it out. If you’re scared then you cave in

[Anonymous]

Try reaching out to him once, and see if he replies.

[JesseP1nk]

Dump this bitch. No time for games.

[BigDog1989]

Give him time

What was the argument?

[Asker]

He was actually trying to pick a fight with me all night, and when I had enough, he blamed me for the reaction and dropped me home.

[BigDog1989]

Ah, sounds like a republican/troll

[Asker]

LOL 🤣

[BigDog1989]

lol, it's true though

[BrightBubblyKat]

He’s sulking.