Why would a guy accuse you of talking to other guys?

[Anonymous]

Something has been off with my boyfriend. Every argument we have gotten into he has accused me of talking to other guys. It so random because it has nothing to do with what we are arguing about. I do tell him other coworkers flirt with me and the things they say to me but i tell him i dont flirt back. I offer to show him my text messages and my call logs and he refuses to look at it. I ask me to show me his and he squints his eyes at me and always says no. I ask him if i could at least take a peak at his messages and its a no. A new thing has popped where he fears im sending pictures to other guys and making fun of him.

[Pyrofox]

This is why you as the girlfriend need to be more stiff about making it clear to other guys that your taken. If you don't other guys are gonna take it as though your available. Ya gotta set the boundries and be professional if that is your true intent. Otherwise you are just embarrassing the dude you are currently dating. How you appear to other guys is an example of how much you respect your man.

[Pyrofox]

I can tell u right now if my girlfriend wasn't being straight forward about being taken with other guys. I'd dump her like freshly born baby. Why? cause the lack of respect. I'd suggest you start making it clear flirting is not only wrong in the workplace but it will be reported on the basis on not being professional. Respect yourself as much as your boyfriend does and this wouldn't be a question.

[Asker]

i show his pictures to the guys at work so they know.

[Pyrofox]

You can't show you gotta stand up for yourself and just say it seriously. Thats the only way guys take a girl serious is if she shows she is. Otherwise it comes off as your pulling a fast one.

[ShiftingMonke]

That sounds like the definition of projection and deflection..

[AydenHazor]

Often times when someone gets suspicious of you being unfaithful it's because they are doing so. Regardless, that level of suspicion is unhealthy for you

[FilmGuy93]

He's phishing. He is insecure in the relationship and trying to catch you.

[Cheerfull009]

As you are already in relationship with your boyfriend then why you flirt to others guys, your action making you suspicious?

[Anonymous]

Some men are paranoid and insecure.