I'm struggling to make friends in a new city and my boyfriend is getting turned off because I don't have much going on outside of work now what?

[Anonymous]

I'm also 30 where it's harder to make friends plus my boyfriend has lived here and went to uni here where it's the easiest to make friends

[MaazHussain]

It can be challenging to make friends in a new city, especially as an adult. However, it's important to remember that you're not alone in this. Here are some things you could try:

• Join clubs or groups: Look for clubs or groups that interest you, such as a book club, hiking group, or a fitness class. This way, you can meet people who share similar interests.
• Attend social events: Check out local events, such as art exhibitions, music festivals, or food fairs. This is a great way to meet new people and explore your new city.
• Volunteer: Volunteering can be a great way to meet people and give back to your community at the same time.
• Take a class: Consider taking a class on a topic that interests you. It could be cooking, photography, or even a language class.
• Join a sports team: Joining a local sports team can be a fun way to meet new people while staying active.
• Meetup: You can use Meetup. com to find groups of people with common interests in your area.

It's also important to communicate with your boyfriend and let him know how you're feeling. Ask him to support you and encourage you to meet new people. Try to find new activities you both enjoy, or make time for each other to explore your new city together.

Remember that making new friends takes time and effort. Don't get discouraged if it doesn't happen right away. Keep putting yourself out there and trying new things, and you'll eventually find your people.

[Guy13]

www.meetup.com

[Guy13]

put your zip code in. Real people meets is a good way to start and what's up and your City

[Paul09]

My experience with meetups, it's mostly older people..

[Guy13]

@Paul09 I see. I met my girlfriend through a friend from one... Good luck with it. Pursue your hobbies and get out.

[Paul09]

I'll still look at it here and there. Man you got lucky or your areas has people your age that are active on meetup. I might be unlucky or cursed lol. I joined salsa, no women, I joined fight club, 1 woman. I try to join things but never any luck. I'll keep trying, thanks.

[Changiis07]

Try and get out more or go on friend apps where you can meet new people

[Makeushiver]

What city?